What should i do when a girl says i stink behind my back ?

Question

This girl at my office always says i stink to others behind my back but never directly to me. This has hurt my feelings tremendously as i am a very sensitive guy. I haven't said anything to her yet but have been ignoring her. Should i continue ignoring her because i do not know what else to do? She never talks to me much too. I decided to be much cleaner to be from now on though.

Answer 1

well, yes, you should try and be clean for others around you. but, no, she shouldn't be constantly saying this, either. that is not the appropriate way to address an issue by backstabbing.

try to look and feel your best. then the problem is solved. but her problem will never be solved as she sounds like a bad person. this you can't change. but you can always buy deodorant or shower each morning.

cheer up!

Answer 2

Shower everyday. Use a washcloth and soap, it's more effective than just rubbing soap on you. Wash your hair too.
Wear deodrant everyday.
Wear clean clothes, including clean socks and underwear everyday.

If she was lying, everybody would know because they would say, "What is she talking about, he never stinks?" Then she would be the one who looks like an idiot, so don't feel bad. If she is telling the truth, then other people are going to agree with her, even though she is mean to speak up about it. They are probably glad she did.

I'm glad you are taking control of the situation.

Matthew McConaughey doesn't wear deodrant. He admitted on The Tonight Show that some people have complained about his smell. Obviously he doesn't care, because he still refuses to wear it or any else that he considers to be an artifical scent. Many women are attracted to him anyway. I used to be attracted to him, until I saw his interview on The Tonight Show. Smelly men are not attractive no matter how attractive they look!!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matthew_McConaughey
Check out this website, it also says that he doesn't wear deodrant.

Answer 3

not in any respect pay interest to what ever the lady is declaring about you and performance self belief on your ownself and from next time whenever you regulate your outfits use talcum lotion or Deodrant spray which will decrease your undesirable odur and also apply it on your legs in order that as that they dont stink beacuse of sweating. And repeating it once lower back dont difficulty to what that woman is declaring about you

Answer 4

People usually can't smell themselves unless it becomes very obvious. And it is embarrassing when someone tells it to your face. Take the message to heart and ask if your personal hygene is acceptable to you and to others. I can guarantee you she is not the only one talking behind your back if you do smell. Would you feel comfortable telling someone (boy or girl) that he smells?

Answer 5

she is just immature or she has feelings 4 u and does not know any other way to put the word out to the other girls not to come near u.......

Answer 6

Take a shower more often, wear deoderant w/antipresperant, and prove her wrong!!

Answer 7

take a shower and wash your hair every day. use deodorant and after shave. wear clean clothes.
and avoid that mean person.

Answer 8

Talk to her....confront her....or go to HR.....if there's a problem, this could be considered harassment.

Answer 9

OMFG!!! GO UP TO HER AND SAY, "SHUT UP YOU STUPID TWIGLET!!! YO MOMMA IS THE ONE WHO STINKS LIKE UR BIG HAIRY AZZ DOES!!!" i hope this helps. fare thee well.

Answer 10

No, take a shower more often.