Please help me to settle this out
2007-01-29 11:10:17 · 26 answers · asked by kaneonmoney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's your son!
How the F can you ask rent money from your own flesh and blood? It's your F'ing family! You created him. Remember when he was a little baby, how cute he was? That's him, you idiot! What ever happened to family values? It's you and him against the world. Always have your family's back. Always..
2007-01-29 11:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by Yosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like he's putting on sex shows? Umm...ok. Kick him out. He's not paying rent and he's being fairly gross. It's your house (I assume) so it's your way or the highway. If push comes to shove, call the cops. There are laws protecting minors from things like this. Your son has no problem disrespecting you, children or your home so unless you put a stop to this by kicking him out, I don't see a better alternative.
2007-01-29 19:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You as the parents are teaching the minors that this okay. This is not his problem but yours. It is the reposnsibilty of the parents to set the standards. Firslty you have allowed him to live rent free. Where is the lesson in that. You are aware of his sexual exploits as are the other kids in the home and he is still living there. Young adults learn there behauvours from there parents, what lessons have u been teaching. Whatever u decide to do it will be hard for your son to handle as he has obvioulsy been allowed to behave in a certain manner, so my advice is fix it but remember that you guys have enabled his behauvour.
2007-01-29 19:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as you love your son, you have small ones to consider. He is old enough to work and help out and as hard as it would be you should tell him what you expect and if he can't abide by the rules he will have to leave. Touch love is sometimes the only thing left to do. I would have a hard time myself with it but if it came down to it I would do that to protect others. Little children should not be seeing this and he does not seem very responsible or respectful to be doing this to the kids, you or the person he is sleeping with, that is something done in private not with a audience
2007-01-29 19:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by lost angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dosen't matter how old he is, he is living in your home he needs to go by your rules. Heads up for your son.... he needs to pay rent, or he goes, he is not to bring girls home to have sex. If he does hes out. No drinking or drug use by him as long as he lives with you. If he doesn't like it hes out. Set the rules, what ever you want them to be. He has to abide by them or he needs to go out on his own. If he has a job or is going to school and working, he needs to pay rent, you set the amount. If he doesn't have a job, he needs to get one fast. Save his money, pay rent or leave. If he doesn't agree with any of it too bad, then he needs to go live on his own. Be his own boss. Be tough, You have younger ones watching what you do. They will remember what you have allowed and do the same things he is doing and more. The student always excells his teacher. have a good serious talk, no negotiating. You are in controll of what goes on in YOUR home.
2007-01-29 19:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out,it is simple as that. He's 21 and can't expect to eat,sleep,use the bathroom,and have sex in your house,and not pay rent. You have to make him be a responsible for his actions,tell him tactfully,that he has to find an apartment,and if he doesn't have a job to get up and go job searching,life isn't a free ride,and he can't expect to hitch his wagon,and leech off of you.
2007-01-29 19:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ellie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't get your question. Are you saying that you have minor children that are watching this? Uhhh..be a parent, throw him out. You have a responsibility to your younger children. At 21, he's old enough to get a job and a place of his own. Don't ya think?
2007-01-29 19:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not entirely sure what you are asking here.....there are minors watching him have sex...that would be a really big issue for both of you.....stop his behavior or make him get his own place...good luck
2007-01-29 19:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him 30 days notice to get his act together and kick him out of the house. Be serious about it, otherwise he will always be a freeloader that you will never get rid of.
2007-01-29 19:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first dis son must be more sensible than that and dis can be by talking wiz him and warning hm that if he didnt stop u'll kick him out of the house but u must first talk to let him pay attention to his duties towards his family.
2007-01-29 19:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by sara e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋