2007-01-29 11:08:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Just do it - it's that plain and simple.
2007-01-29 11:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you even recognize this sort of problem. Most people who behave this way don't know that it is a problem.
Whenever you are wrong (which is often, like any other human), say that you're sorry and leave it at that. No explanation, just say that you are sorry.
When you do manage to say that you are sorry, give yourself a real reward for having done so. That will supplement the award that the person to whom you apologize to gives you. By giving yourself a reward for apologizing, you will eventually link apologizing to a good thing. It will slowly stop being a bad thing.
2007-01-29 13:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about what kind of person you are. It's probably some little thing that won't even be remembered in a few weeks... but if you don't apologize the person will remember that you are a stubborn person.... be mature.
2007-01-29 11:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the right thing to do, so just do it. and think about what you'll be doing, mending a relationship is always a good thing to do, and it takes a big man to know when to say I'm sorry.
I'm sincerely proud of you, and for you.
Best Wishes With Everything
2007-01-29 12:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people find it very difficult to actually say . . .
If it is someone you talk to regularly, put forth the effort .
If you rarely see them , get a card and add an apology .
You apparently know you do owe it to them .
2007-01-29 11:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man! I am the same way. I found it super duper difficult to apologize to my friend. I had to really put myself in her position and visualize how the apology would feel.
It worked and I felt so much better.
2007-01-29 11:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by djzlyric 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI, It's not easy ,but reach out and touch someone's heart, Say" I'm Sorry" and mean it !
2007-01-29 12:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Aquarius/Purple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just got to do it. If you cant do it in person then write them a letter or an email.
2007-01-29 11:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask Jesus (who is God Himself) to save your soul so you won't go to hell for eternity. And He'll give you the power to forgive others.
2007-01-29 11:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by CJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would you want to be done if the tables were turned? what would you expect to have happen to you? think from those terms and perhaps you can make amends soon.
2007-01-29 11:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by cadaholic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋