I think I might have a bigger sex drive than my man. I feel like I just want that closeness with him all the time, and have the need to be spontanous and I dont feel that he does. I hate feeling almost as though I am buggin him about it, and it kinda makes me feel un-wanted as a woman, isn't the man suppose to be the one makin all the first moves, and buggin for it? I dont like the way tables have turned. Whats up with this?
2007-01-29 11:05:59 · 15 answers · asked by FIT-GAL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah sometimes im like that with my b/f but its like he will ever refuse lol guys like that, some guys find it even sexier for girls to make the first moves.
2007-01-29 14:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by yadira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how u feel, i am very spontanous and he wasnt. not just with our sex drives but it was an issue for me. i kinda bragged about sex, hoping it would make him realize that i would like it more often but it didnt help at all. there was times he could go like over 2 months and it not even bother him one bit. i just would suggest do what u can to make things fun, maybe show him a few tricks or whatever u r into. good luck!
2007-01-29 11:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not unusual for a woman to have a large sexual appetite. But, don't get discouraged if you want it more than he does. You should sit down and talk about this with him openly and see what he thinks. The start of good sex is communication. Without it, you have unstatisfaction.
2007-01-29 11:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old myth and not true. Everyone's level is different and changeable. It's okay to make the first move... but back off if the signals aren't there. Guys don't want to "hafe ta". Try mornings if he is too tired at night.
2007-01-29 11:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club. Alot of us ladies have the "drive" that the men have always bragged about having. It isn't abnormal, I just found that I have to self gratify more often cause my "machine" can't keep it's clogs going long enough.
2007-01-29 13:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. But for the most part yes.
2007-01-29 11:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is axiomatically a be counted of organic decision. tens of millions of years of evolution has shaped are species to have the adult males desirous to have greater intercourse, via fact we are greater ideal which will rape women. it ought to no longer be friendly, yet its the actuality.
2016-09-28 04:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he older than you? That may be part of the problem. Please don't get offended, but have you thought of satisfying yourself every once in awhile, so you don't get frustrated? It's an idea.
2007-01-29 11:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I can relate to this most-def!
2007-01-29 11:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my g/f is the same way but neither one of us ever say no
2007-01-29 11:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋