One of my guy friends was at a strip club last weekend and decided to pay for a private dance in the champagne room. He can't decide if she should tell his girlfriend or not. I don't know what to tell him. What do you think?
2007-01-29 10:30:46 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
didnt Chris Rock tell you...
There is NO sex in the champagne room
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2007-01-29 10:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Some girls are okay with it, but I would suspect that if he has reservations about telling her, then she is not one of them. I personally don't think any guy who has made a commitment to a girl should be going to strip clubs, let alone getting a private dance. That is extremely disrespectful, immature, and disgusting.
He should tell her right away, and vow to never do it again. IF he wants to keep her around. If he doesn't care who he tramples on then he might as well try to ride it out without getting caught. But that's not a very healthy way to go around living your life.
2007-01-29 10:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by p_i_turtle_sanders 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The gf always finds out. It all depends on the girl - if the gf was ok w/ him going to a strip club, then she shouldn't get pissed at him for paying for a private dance. But if she didn't know about the strip club, then that's a whole 'nother story!
2007-01-29 10:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by mauinei34 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would defiantly stay out of the drama. He was wrong into paying someone for a private dance... when he has someone he's suppose to be serious with...
There maybe something more going on in that relationship than what is being said ..
2007-01-29 10:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend, what was he doing in a strip club, in the first place? Men often underestimate their women, because if he wanted a lap dance, most girlfriends/wives/babymommas would've gave him one! But the damage is done & now he needs to fess up!!
2007-01-29 10:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by chevy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. This is normal. When he gets married he needs to stay out of the champagne room but not necessarily out of the club.
2007-01-29 10:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by needliberty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thin he should tell her. They should decide together what their definitions of cheating are. For some coupes, this would not be considered cheating and for others it may. It may also not be considered cheating but something that makes the other feel uncomfortable. Any way you look at it, it is between the two of them to decide but she does have the right to know. Particularly if he questions whether or not what he did was right.
2007-01-29 10:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by JustTalking 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what his girlfriend's opinion is about strip clubs, and on what else happend in the "Champagne Room."
2007-01-29 10:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by lynkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should tell her, but as to whether it's right or wrong, that totally depends on how the girlfriend feels. To some girls, it's okay; to others it's not. It's not a matter of right or wrong. It's all subjective. One thing that is wrong for sure is lying about it.
2007-01-29 10:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
depends on the people in the relationship...that's the answer to everything.
but I would say that 90% of the time this is going to be a problem. it won't do much good in telling her unless he feels really guilty about it. either way, she's going to be pissed.
2007-01-29 10:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by zzzzzzzzz27 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋