ok, so there's this guy. we started talking to eachother, and we started liking eachother a lot. he asked me out the other day, and i said yes. well he always comes to my locker and talks to me, and other sweet things too. he actually likes me and cares for me, unlike my other boyfriends in the past. i know this is REALLY rude and mean but, i kinda am losing feelings for him. i dont know what is happening. i need help so MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks!
2007-01-29 10:30:35 · 13 answers · asked by sara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like you are one of those girls that have been hurt so much tha they expect the hurt to be in every single one of there relationships and when they are not they get bored with the good guy.
2007-01-29 10:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by leona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the thrill is only in the chase--that could be what is happenning here. And sometimes people don't quite live up to the expectations we set for them so we lose interest.
I know I used to date jerks, because they seemed pretty cool and they also seemed like they had a lot of self-respect, though in all cases this didn't end up being the actual situation. Is this guy being a pushover? Agreeing with everything? Worship is creepy, even from the nicest guy in the world. If so, you can try to get him to offer advice and help make decisions-it'll make him feel better about himself and you'll feel better about him when you realize he's not just sweet and possibly, boring.
2007-01-29 18:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by kiddo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he doesn't have to be so nice, you like sort of nice guys too. See if you like him then. Take it as a good thing, it means you can ask him these kinds of things.
2007-01-29 18:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by Grizzly UM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is figure out the things about him you dont like....the things that show why you dont like him? his looks, personality, is there another boy u see? maybe make a chart of lieks vs. dislikes and youll soon figure out why..
2007-01-29 18:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by lexasorusrex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...if you're losing feelings for him, either tough it out for a while or just leave him. I'd stick with him- he sounds really sweet :-) You don't find many guys like that...
2007-01-29 18:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then break up and just be good friends.......
i dun get y ppl say they like each other, start dating, then suddenly, like 2 weeks later, they break up and break each others' hearts... what's up with that?! if u were gonna do that in the first place, y didn't u just be friends first instead?
-_-;;;
sorry...im kinda hyper today... lol
2007-01-29 18:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With familiarity breeds contempt. This will happen with any guy you are ever with. Stick with it. Be a person of integrity.
2007-01-29 18:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be the guy is rushing to much for you.tell him to slow down and give you some room.try and make space between himm and you.go slow and steady.smell the roses.
2007-01-29 18:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't that rude, you just don't like him alot and you thought you did...he could do the nicest thing in the world and you still don't like him(like a bf)...it is ok, just gently tell him what you need to tell him
2007-01-29 18:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by sweet cherry girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, people do this- you like them sooo much and when you start dating its like what the heck!? well don't wory-- you like him, whether you're feelin it or not... so dont end it unless it gets rle bad but it seems like you like him and he RLE likes you and you don't want to hurt him... DO YA? goood luck! =]
2007-01-29 18:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by alison p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋