When I am stressed I refuse to give it up to my b/f but sometimes, like after my gymnastics meets, I am willing to.
Is it too harsh to make him wait until I am not so stressed??
2007-01-29 10:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think sex is actually a stress reliever
2007-01-29 10:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not selfish. Ultimately, the act should be something that both of you enjoy. You are not in service to him. If he cares about you he will understand that there are times when you may not feel like doing it. Everyone has different need and drives so if you are not in the right frame of mind, don't force yourself. I am sure you wouldn't want him to give it up when he doesn't want to simply to please you. That would be selfish.
2007-01-29 18:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by JustTalking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that extended exercise releases the same endorphines that are released through sex? That COULD be why you are more willing after gym. Sex and exercise are BOTH stress busters :)
2007-01-29 18:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by Angel_Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of folks believe sex after a stressful event is better, but if you can't enjoy it when your stressed, waiting is fine.
2007-01-29 18:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mystee_Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do whatever makes you happy and dont stress about it.
2007-01-29 18:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you are stressed out and don't feel like it, he should respect that.
2007-01-29 18:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by kiera70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are putting to much pressure on yourself you have priorities don't let any kind of pier pressure you into any thing you don't feel comfortable in in every every every aspect there is a whole life ahead of you take care of what you want first.
2007-01-29 18:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by JAYHAWKER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking us that question?
If you don't know how you feel about that, then you probably shouldn't be involved in a sexual relationship. You aren't ready.
2007-01-29 18:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-29 18:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋