When I am stressed I refuse to give it up to my b/f but sometimes, like after my gymnastics meets, I am willing to.
Is it too harsh to make him wait until I am not so stressed??
2007-01-29 10:12:24 · 7 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it's not being too harsh, if you're stressed out niether one of you will enjoy it as much, and the two of you won't be completely comfortable.
2007-01-29 10:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Rusty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know, sex is an excellent stress reliever. I don't think you are harsh, but you might find that he may lose interest in you if you keep putting him off all the time. I don't mean to imply that you should give into him every time he sports wood, but you might find that having sex while stressed may help you loosen up and your b/f will get the release he is looking for as well.
2007-01-29 18:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by truckerman96 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, your not being too harsh.. actually your not being harsh at all. if your body is not into it than having sex is pointless. there's nothing wrong with you being stressed and not wanting to. i rather my girl be in a good state of mind when we're having sex.. if he can't respect that than he's being selfish.
2007-01-29 18:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Blake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a great stress reliever, you may want to give it up to relive your stress, sounds better than an aspirin to me!!
2007-01-29 18:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your deliberately withholding sex from him as a punishment it is wrong. If your upset about something and need time to cool off, tell him that and either he will wait or take care of it himself.
2007-01-29 18:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by lost angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a typical female to me, i wouldnt worry about it
2007-01-29 18:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by bad b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No he should get it if you explain.
2007-01-29 18:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by Grizzly UM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋