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Laying down next to you and putting his arms around your waist,
Massaging between your shoulder blades,
Guiding your head to his chest and kissing your neck,
Enjoying your weight on his body,
Tucking his hand in the waistband of your jeans,
His hand between your legs,
A happy content grin on his face.
Kissing every piece of showing skin,
If you b/f does all this is he seriously h*rny??
Why is it guys still get turned-on when they know you aren't in the mood anyway??
We have had se.x b4, but was it wrong not to this time just b/c I wasn't in a good mood??

2007-01-29 10:02:45 · 25 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Why do guys keep trying when they know you arent up to se.x

2007-01-29 10:06:03 · update #1

25 answers

he should understand that u're not in a good mood. i mean i never do this when my girlfriend is in a bad mood. however, i try to make her feel good and comfortable than maybeeee, u know. but i wait to feel her better. if she doesnt i dont go further.

2007-01-29 10:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by R A 4 · 0 0

I have read that you should even if you aren't in the mood. It might help relax you. Also, a relationship shouldn't just be about you. You should compromise and do it when he wants to as well. I'm sure he has when he wasn't. And don't think guys always are. It's a huge misconception. Sex can be a huge stress relief. Also having sex when you're not in the mood can strengthen your bond because you have made a compromise when you really don't want to. Also don't use it as a counter if you do give in. Don't use it against him when he upsets you and tell him you didn't want to one night but you did anyway. Relationships are all about compromise. But don't think you have to every time. Hope this helps.

2007-01-29 10:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by steelhead3686 3 · 0 0

If you aren't interested in giving in to him, he can always cheat with someone who will. It's his body and he can do whatever he wants with it. So if and when you're not in the mood, just tell him and let him take care of his business. Problem solved!

2007-01-29 10:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Boys are sometimes horny and want to touch every part of your body. They are usally never moody because when there wife or girlfriend comes home from work. he does the rest. takes of his and your shirt. lays down on the bed. you lay on top of him. He takes off your pants and theres a happily ever after.

2007-01-29 10:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica H 1 · 1 0

At first I thought I was reading a poem LOL. Guys are horney all the time no matter what. They are walking hard on's. And there's nothing any one can do about it. If your not in the mood then your not in the mood. But when you are in the mood wrap it up.

2007-01-29 10:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Absolutely not. Your body is a temple, and he should respect that. Just because he can't control his, um, urges, does not mean you have to give it up. I think men just have on/off switches, women do not. We have to want it and if we don't then too bad for them. I think men really think women are like those girls in Penthouse Forum stories....like we get turned on just because they walk in the room. Men need to respect a woman's prerogative, not rub their hand between our legs and expect us to swoon.

2007-01-29 10:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Klum 3 · 0 1

hell naw it wasn't wrong. If you're not in the mood, YOU'RE NOT IN THE MOOD! I still don't know why some women feel they're doing something wrong...

2007-01-29 10:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sammy 2 · 1 0

no, it's reversed in my relationship. sometimes he's not in the mood. and i try to make him and if it doesn't work we just go about our day.
normally he's not after working 14 hours of construction.

2007-01-29 10:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by Back*To*Me 4 · 0 0

No. If your not into it don't do it. Geesh just because he wants something it doesn't mean you need to give in every time.

2007-01-29 10:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no it wasnt wrong, you werent in the mood! yeah, thats what he was looking for, but if your not in the mood, then you dont have to do it!

2007-01-29 10:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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