What do you do if you have an over protective best friend and a over protective boyfriend. But the conflict is, is that they havent meet each other yet and i have a great fear that my boyfriend that ive known since we were little and my bestfriend in high school with me right know. Now why i fear is beacuse when we're all on the phone the sort of get into a huge arguement thats not really called for. But thats just on the phone. They both act the same, But how will they act in person when they meet for the first time evrer. Any suggestions of advice because this is really....really.....really...killing me
2007-01-29 09:46:36 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your girlfriend she needs to step back when it comes to your b/f she may mean well but may create some huge problems with the b/f.
2007-01-29 09:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is to let them meet each other and if continues you will have to make a decision on weather friendship is more important that relationships out of marriage. On the other hand they could be arguing on the phone for the simple fact that they are so much alike that they believe that they themselves are better than the other and are jealous of the time you spend away from them.
2007-01-29 17:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by billyandbecca2002@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are friends, boyfriends are boyfriends. Wether they get along or not is their own business. It shouldn't influence your relationship with either one of them. As long as your boyfriend does not tell you to stop seeing your best friend, or the other way round, you're fine. Otherwise I would say dump the one that asks you to dump the other one. Of course, if they like each other that's a bonus, because you can organize a lot of events together, but if not, then so be it.
2007-01-29 17:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by harakiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow how are u or anyone for that matter able to predict what's going to happen when they meet for the first time. See what happens. If they get along they get along and if they don't well then you don't do anything in the future with both of them at the same time.
2007-01-29 17:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your boyfriend she really likes him a lot.. and tell your bestfriend he really likes her a lot..
really convince them both that they like each other..so they'll put there gaurd down.. gooo luck
2007-01-30 11:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ash listen to what your heart says only you know whats best.
2007-01-29 17:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ashley, what you do is listen to your heart.
2007-01-29 17:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know what to tell you
2007-01-29 17:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by .:aRi:. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋