Am I being petty, He's a good provider and I do love him but this is annoying to me.
2007-01-29 09:43:46 · 17 answers · asked by lovemy.coffee52251 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you are asking too much to expect your husband to respect your opinions. Tell him so if it's bothering you.
2007-01-29 09:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by bananajcd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Provider? Geez! If your husband thinks its his job to label your interests and preferences stupid or otherwise, then hes a real turd. It doesnt matter how much dough he brings home. Money should NEVER buy the right to s h i t on others, least of all, ones spouse. Next time he tries to call you or something you like dumb, remind him that you may as well be stupid for liking him to.
2007-01-29 17:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by prancingmonkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's either being a jerk because you allow it or just has nothing better to do than harrass you. Easy to fix. Next time he says something's stupid throw it right back at him. Tell him his "whatever" is also stupid. See how he likes it. And keep doing it until he's get tired and then tell him that's exactly how you feel when he does it to you.
He'll either grow up or you'll leave.
2007-01-29 17:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you love him and aren't really angry, but it would make you feel better if he weren't so critical about your shows......you have the right to have your own opinions about what you like. As far as the coffee.... that's just silly. Why in the world would he talk about your coffee....unless , of course, he was Dennis Leary.
2007-01-29 17:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the coffee. If it is maxwell house, JFG, of any sort of instant coffee, your husband might be onto something. If you are drinking quality coffee, and preparing it properly, then tell him he's being an @$$.
2007-01-29 17:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by battistin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the shows may be stupid, coffee being stupid dont think so, ask him why the stuff is stupid and see if he can give a good answer,
2007-01-29 17:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by lstbob51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him on it! Tell him how it makes you feel. Not in an angry tone, but just an honest talk about it.
My ex did that. It was actually a factor in our break up. I realized he just didn't have my back... but he criticized constantly and had a personality disorder on top of it.
I think its a part of low self esteem. Talk to him!
2007-01-29 17:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop watching stupid show and drinking stupid coffee.
2007-01-29 17:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by dave_cooke1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband sounds childish and annoying. I reccommend a swift kick to the junk.
2007-01-29 17:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by Toga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if he does not respect you and by calling the things you like and enjoy is his attempt to seem superior. I think you need to sit with him and have a long talk. He may be the bread winner as you said but he still needs to respect you.
2007-01-29 17:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by tom4texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋