i dont want to loose him?

Question

my bf and i have been going out for about 4 months now. and lateley ive been thinking that he likes these three other girls at school. i mean the signs are obvious
he doesnt hug me anymore
everytime i see him with one of the three girls hes always flirting with them
he doesnt call me anymore

im just afraid of loosing him
and i really love him =]
i dont want to break up with him because he'll be hurt and even more myself.

give me some advice please!!!

Answer 1

You have been going out for 4 months. Not to burst your bubble or anything, but it's not like the commitment or relationship you have going is really that strong. In a relationship, you are supposed to feel safe and secure. It is obvious that you don't. Get out of it now before anything else happens that you will later regret. And realistically, if he's out flirting, he's not going o be that hurt.

Answer 2

First you are young and you don't need all that sh*t . there are more fish in the sea. And you are not going to die. And if he doesn't call you he don't want you. You do the same don't call him ignore him give him a taste of his own medicine see how he likes it. And the hurt last a couple of days. Ask him don't let him know you are hurt . Ask your Mom Take care and good luck

Answer 3

you sound like you are young so I'll take it easy on you. You need to ask him straight out , face to face, DO YOU STILL WANT TO GO OUT WITH ME. Brace your self for the answer because you may not like it. If he says yes you have to tell him top stop hanging with other girls and focus on you. If he says no you have to accept it and move on. cry Little if you must but move on to the next relationship. Something tells me that later on you will think to your self "what the hell did i see in him"

Answer 4

sounds to me you have already lost him and you are the one in denial. move one to someone who appreciates you.

Answer 5

confront him about it..