I am really upset at my parents?

Question

I would say I hate them, but that's not right. I am just REALLY REALLY upset. What should I do. Serious answers only. I am too upset for jokes...


Thanks.

1. They broke a promise to me
2. They are not regretful
3. They spend all their time dealing with anything but my problems....

They promised me something that they can not give me because they can not afford it. Firstly, their financial situation was the same when they promised it. If they knew they could not afford it then, they should not have PROMISED.
Also, they have spent more on little luxuries than they have on whatever they promised me.

Answer 1

First I just want to let you know..I know exactly how you feel...
And I am really sorry...I know its really irritating..

BUT..(You know there always those)
Try not to almost Hate them..I can tell you know how strong of a word that is because you didn't use it...But hating over any object or even dream isn't necessary.

I want to let you know..It is really hard sometimes but you should talk to your parents about this...maybe you'll be able to see that people mess up...That's probably what your parents did..But sometimes we take them for granted...

I would say..Talk to them and be truthful but thankful and polite at the same time..I know its hard...but I have no doubts that you can try it.

Hope I could help.
Sara Nicole

Answer 2

You said 2 things, they didn't follow through on something they promised and also that they spend more time dealing with anything but your problems. Which is upsetting you? How do you know their exact financial position? If you knew their financial position and then you would have also known that they could not afford to keep the promise. Take a look inside. Is this something material, or does it have great affect on your life ie: college etc? What are you also doing to achieve what you want?

Answer 3

It's nice to see that you are mature enough to realize that you are angry and not hateful. Did your parents actually use the words "We promise"? Sometimes in spite of our best efforts it's not possible to honor a promise. Did you perhaps get into some trouble that made your parents change their mind about whatever it is they promised you? Did they say why they aren't honoring the promise? It's OK to let them know how you feel but you have to accept the fact that as your parents they have the right to make choices for you even though you may not agree with them.

Answer 4

you need to calm down your parents probally wanted to get you what ever they promised you but things happen. It may not be their falt sometimes you just need to take a step back and look at the bigger picture. are you old enough for a part time job maybe that is what you should do and not get mad at your parents start a job hunt so you can buy your own things. I know when I was younger my parents sometimes made promises they could not keep but I got a job . Fixed my problem and got a job. sometimes might have to be a solution.
don't get so angry
pray about it, it'll work out
undecided nay

Answer 5

parents do this and i have been guilty of the same. They do not understand you and you think they do not care. Everyone gets angry and nothing is resolved Why? Take a step back.It is only because they love you and care that they make you feel the way you do at the moment . If they did not care you would not have asked this question. Give a few more details of your problem with them >>>>> maybe we can help

Answer 6

First, Negative feelings that you harbour hurt YOU physically. Try to honestly look at their way of looking at things so you have a complete perspective, then COMMUNICATE with them. Parents only have one chance at life and decisions. There is no practice run at parenting. Sometimes there's more than one right decision. You won't know what they are thinking/feeling or why unless you communicate. Keep in mind that ultimately they are responsible for your well being, your safety, etc. Sometimes love is hard when you're a parent, or a child.

Answer 7

Well if you are upset and you feel you hate them for right now, dont deny yourself these true feelings. it is okay too feel this as long as you dont act on it and it doesnt stay.....
ask yourself why your angry at them....
is it just them...
can you problem solve
call a friend and talk about it
whatever you do dont stuff it or wallow in it too much........dont be a part of the problem or your problem, be part of the solution or your solution cuz this is effecting you probably more than them...good luck.

Answer 8

particular. Allah has made it mandatory for Muslims to obey and appreciate mothers and fathers. At one time Nabi Karim suggested, you father owns you and what you very own.Disobeying mothers and fathers is a super sin. Now which you have found out your mistake, ask pardon of your mom and repent in the past Allah Almighty. Muhamamd Javed Iqbal

Answer 9

Parents are human, and most parents are trying to do their best and do the right things. Unless your parents are out right jerks, chances are they are trying to do right by you, even if you don't understand their reasoning. Parents make decisions all the time and it breaks our hearts to see our kids angry or hurt, but sometimes we have to stick to our decisions because it's the right decision. I hope that helps and I hope that's the case with your parents.

Answer 10

My ex hubby attacked me and my dad is living with him like they are best mates
You have to put yourself first,

Ps. is that all I thought it was something serious,
They broke a promise,
I thought they'd killed someone
Get over it, some of us ain't as lucky as you you need to grow up