What am I doing wrong?

Question

I have never had a boyfriend. I don't think I'm unattractive or have a bad personality. Guys have flirted with me a few times, but it's so uncommon that I'm surprised every time it happens. I have high self-esteem without being stuck-up or anything. But for some reason guys seem intimidated by me, and I have no clue why.

Answer 1

dont make them do all the flirting. maybe they dont think u like them because u dont flirt or talk to them as much. be more outgoing and comfortable around them. be youeself. if they notive you're comfortable around them, then they will be comfortable around u and want to get to know u better and maybe even go out with u. just be patient.

Answer 2

Well, first off consider your age. If you haven't had a date yet and are still suprised by flirting you may not yet be mature enough. Suggestions are talk to guys, be funny and easy-going so you seem more approachable. And hey if that doesn't work then you should start asking out guys!

Answer 3

Before you ask yourself "What am I doing wrong?", first ask yourself "Why do I need a boyfriend in the first place?"

If you're young, friends are twice as fun as boyfriends. Heck, who wants to worry about having to impress someone? ;)

As for guys not paying attention to you, it doesn't really matter. When the right guy comes, he'll sweep you off the feet. And when he does come, you won't even remember guys never payed attention to you. The guys will remember though - and they'll kick themselves for it. ;)

Answer 4

Maybe you give off a look that doesn't want to be bothered. Some people make facial expressions without even knowing it.

Answer 5

well you've answered it yourself really, maybe you are intimidating them too much, just try and chill out a bit more?

Answer 6

probably because they think your stuck up