Should I or shouldn't I?

Question

My wife and I are both white. One night, I rented a porn flick just trying to spice things up for my wife. She didn't show a reaction to most of the movie. However, during one scene where a well hung, muscular black man made love to a pretty white woman, she said, "Now that's hot. She's going for it" about three times. Later, when I asked her if she liked the movie, she said, "I would never cheat on you, baby, but I love the way black packages look on tv." I laughed. We all have out fetishes. I even joked that I may get her a black stripper for her birthday. She laughed and said, "Nasty boy!." About 3 months have passed and out of the blue she says, "When are you getting the black stripper?" She played it like a joke, but she remembered after all that time. Do you think she is serious? She has been such a good, faithful wife, I would consider. Just a complete strip--nothing more. Would you still respect your husband if he gave you a sexy on-time "gift" for your birthday?

Answer 1

Of course she will still respect you! You can give her a stripper for her birthday, but only if you're feeling comfortable with it.
I think she sees it as a joke... Offer her the stripper and tell her to invite some friends over... They'll have the night of their lives. Just laughing, girl talk and some guy dancing for them! :-)