I like a couple of guys but they don't even really seem to notice me. Sometimes we talk and stuff. But that's it. There is this one guy though, that I really really like and want to go out with badly but he only likes me as a friend. What should I do??
2007-01-29 09:13:27 · 11 answers · asked by Danielle ™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, I kinda have the same problem. This "friend" of mine says that he only wants to be friends but he keeps getting emotionally and physically closer to me as the time progresses. We have been friends for about 7 years and he tells me that he just wants to be friends for now, but I personally know that in the future we will have something. You just have to give it time like I'm doing...it takes men a little longer to realize what is staring them in the face. He knows you're there and in due time if it is supposed to be he will notice you and what you're worth. A good friend goes a long way, but a crush can only damage you in the end.
2007-01-29 09:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by sad red head 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, I've have the same problem from the male end of the spectrum. I've known quite a number of girls who were interested in me that I wasn't interested in. Good thing that males are the ones expected to make a move normally, otherwise I'd be doing a fair bit of turning down (I actually have turned one down).
2007-01-29 17:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by yagoonamate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amen.. i swear it's a curse.. there are a bunch of guys that like me, but i dont like them...and the one guy who i like SO much doesn't want to be in a relationship with me right now.. My advice is to try to move onto a guy that you'll like and that will be sooo into you
2007-01-29 17:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel! I used to have a huge crush on a girl in school but I never had the guts to tell her....years later I bump into her at the mall and we chit chat a bit and she tells me that she used to think I was the bomb!!! Oh well..I should have told her way back when.
2007-01-29 17:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by xcessjw2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know his interests and then get interested in a similar sport or activity. He may not notice you more, but at least you both will have something to talk about.
2007-01-29 17:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him? Most guys assume we have crossed that line into friendship and give up before they even try - if you two have hung out more than a few times, he probably doesnt think you have interest - just ask him! be open!!
2007-01-29 17:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by ghacker64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will I think you should try.But if he say's no then just tell him that you just want to still be friends,and don't want anything to change between you'll.There's no harm in trying.
2007-01-29 17:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain... the girls i like dont like me and the girls that like me, i dont like... i would get to know that person a bit better and when i think the time is right i would ask that person out
2007-01-29 17:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by BORED 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel, if you can. and if you don't want anyone to know, tell him after school ,or write him a note or something. the same thing happens to me.
2007-01-29 17:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by Fallen Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain. i have no idea either. maybe when we like them were just trying to hard even though we think we aren't.
2007-01-29 17:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋