okay, this guy that i like asked my friend out. my friend forgot i liked him and she said just tell me if u don't want me to go out wit him. she said she doesn't want me to be hurt but i told her i wasn't. but really i am, and i don't want her to go out wit him. but then what kind of friend would i and we have been friendz for almost ever, and we both don't want this to come between our friendship.
2007-01-29 09:06:31 · 21 answers · asked by LOVERGIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I seriously don't no what to do
2007-01-29 09:09:10 · update #1
People i still need u, i can't keep seeing them to get u no.
2007-01-31 09:14:39 · update #2
This is simple, take the easy advice..................
2007-02-06 08:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Blueryno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first rule of friendship is to never let a guy get between you. Tell her how you feel and if you have been friends for so long, she should understand and respect your wishes. It's better for you both to not go out with this guy than to not be friends over him.
2007-01-29 09:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by Star 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no one is worth loosing a close friend to. There are so many guys out there that it may just be best for you both to find a different guy. The best thing to do is talk with your friend and let her know how you feel. It would have been best to be honest to begin with, both with yourself and your friend just because she may really have feelings for him now and she is not meaning to hurt your feelings. Hopefully the two of you can sit down and be completely honest with one another, then go from there. I wish you both much luck.
2007-01-29 09:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by lost angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF she was your friend, how could she "forget" that you liked this guy????? You have to be honest with her.. but you have to ask yourself too.. does this guy like you???? If he don't look at you that way, then you can't really stop him from wanting to date others.. You know things happen for a reason, maybe you and him were better off friends and if he hooks up with your friend, you will have him in your life forever, but if not.. you just might not know when or if you will see him again!!
2007-01-29 09:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you like that guy and she does too listen we all believe that we will get what we deserve so 1-if you go on this manner you will be tired 2-if you do the right you will not get the bad so do this
stay away from him for 7days and do any thing else work hard get a more powerful personality show ur self powerful if he loves u he will get to you but if he does not come to u so believe me he just wants a kidding girl and not for a serioud relationship
ALWAYS REMEMBER if you do the right ,it will come to you
do what you have in ur hand u get what u want BUT u will be happy not crying on some thing stupid u may do
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2007-01-29 09:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Alphredo K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just in that position! Listen, if your friend likes this guy, you have to let her have him. If your friend says no, you will feel awkward knowing that the guy you are crushing on is single, and likes your friend. Because then you know that you will don't have a chance. Also, if your friend says no, she might be really sad. The guy might not like you because you caused your friend to say no. Just try to be friend with the guy, and let your friend and he be happy. After all, a person does have to make sacrifices.
2007-01-29 09:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by STrawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a very similar situation, except I was the friend he asked out. I kinda liked him and he was charming, but then I was tlaking to her, she said I could go out with him, and I consider her, but then I asked her to really really tell me what she wanted. She broke down in tears and said it was killing her that we were together. I broke up with him 10 minutes later. She was my best friend, and it wasn't worth it to lose or hurt her. Speaking from experience, you friend will understand, you are more important to her htan a boy,
2007-02-06 08:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by chelsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it really bothers you, you have to stand up for yourself. What kind of a "good" friend are you if you have to lie to your good friend. Tell her the truth. Tell her you don't like it. If she's any of a good friend as you are to her, then she'd understand.
Friendship comes with the good and the bad.
2007-01-29 09:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by Scott D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, although she may be your friend she cares more about herself than she does you. If she didn't she would not have said "if you dont want me to I won't". Just for fun, you should tell her that you don't want her to and see what she says. Then after, tell her that you were just kidding and that you appreciate the fact that she asked your opinion but you want her to be happy :-)
2007-02-04 17:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by isis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have just done the same thing to my freind we fought about it though. i cant believe we did though. just tell him and her how u feel and in the end someone may get hurt then again u never know u could get the guy u want just do what ur heart says
2007-01-29 09:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by SASSY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try explaining how much you like him to her and tell her that you don't want this to come between your friendship and you wanted her to be happy and stuff. Just be honest. I'm sure she'll understand and she might break up with him because you like him.
2007-01-29 09:11:22 · answer #11 · answered by Danielle ™ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋