I was seeing this girl, but for reasons unknown to me, after a few dates and constant texting she told me she didnt want a relationship and just wanted to be friends. I kinda stopped talking to her for a while, but we are now getting back into it, mainly on msn. Every time i ask "how are you" she keeps telling me she's having men trouble, and keeps telling me that her parents keep wondering why she hasnt got a boyfriend... why is she telling me this? She also keeps saying " we need ben and jerry's" which is the ice cream we shared on our second date... I also notice her looking at me all the time, even tho i try not to make eye contact...
IS she sending me signals to try again? or what? and if she is how would i go about it... i dont really want to get rejected again....
2007-01-29 08:25:06 · 12 answers · asked by jon t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she is curious again and wants to see what she might have missed. maybe your second best or maybe she got cold feet.
a lot of maybes for you, but play it cool and make her curious .and btw , check if you still into her in the process.
2007-01-29 08:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by florence 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You daft prat ! Don't you know how to understand and read the opposite sex? A mental age of about 12 I'd say. Keep away from people's daughters until you are mature enough to deal with them !! YOU are sending HER signals saying this is a bloody wierdo, hence the age old be friends no relationship game play.She pities you not fancies you ! Her only men trouble is in finding one. You are just a soft sounding board for her to use.They are very cunning and wise you know .
2007-01-29 09:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by Hugh Jarce 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is absolutely trying to give you a hint that she is interested..I tried once to send a hint to my guy friend that I wanted to get married by talking about how many wedding videos I watched and how beautiful they were....
you should take her up on the offer to go get ben and jerry's next time...and take it from there. if you still like her go for it....life is short and people make mistakes..sometimes when a person breaks up with you, it has nothing to do with you, instead it has to do with their own insecurity or any given reason..
so don't take it personal that she broke it off at one point, just key in on the fact that she is still attracted to you and wants you...I'd say go for it...cause you know deep down you still care for her
Best of Luck~!!!
2007-01-29 08:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mary S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to be forward yourself and ask HER a question... and then if you get no answer - that will be YOUR answer. No sense in wasting your time with someone who does not have the guts to speak their mind when given an invitation to - kind of cowardly.
Try it.
Good luck
2007-01-29 08:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this - I think she playing with you and likes the attention you give her.
I think if she was genuine she would of come out and asked you out again.
Time to move on I think and leave her play games with someone else.
Good luck loveen.xx
2007-01-29 09:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Éan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she's sending you messages of not wanting to be in a relationship with you. It's so obvious, why are you putting yourself through this with her? Are you a doormat? Don't allow her to treat you that way, you deserve better.
2007-01-29 08:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I was you forget her & move on.There will be a nice girl out there,
shes messing with your head.Good Luck
2007-01-29 08:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
l never like undecided people besides she wants a boyfriend to make her parents happy.Do you want to part of this sad setup.
2007-01-29 08:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by TheMan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your 'King of the friends zone'..... Sorry mate.
2007-01-29 08:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by badassbiker1974 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she wants women play games all the time you have to be man enough to ask questions!!!!
2007-01-29 09:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by rinne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋