I go to a diferent Middle school that my gf goes to , therefore i cant go to the dances she goes to. I kinda worrie that when she goes to the dances herself someother guy will try to get with her , and she'll give in
And next feb the 9th she goes to the sweetheart dance , and i cant go but i think she will . . . . I JUST dont whant to loose her .
2007-01-29 08:22:14 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel you bro.. and yes your jealous.. you don't want another man taking over and thats understandable. all you can do is show her you lover her and cherish her so another man can't show her better.. good luck homie.
2007-01-29 08:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's nothing you can do except trust her. The risk of "losing her" or her "giving in" could happen wether or not she's at a dance. It could happen at school, going out, shopping, you name it. You have to know if you can trust her, by getting to know her more, this is a risk in any relationship, we learn by trial and error.
Also, if she's going to dances by herself, why don't you do the same thing? try not to stress out and have fun as well
2007-01-29 16:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by Frank the tank 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is a thing called TRUST.U r not jeaulous just VERY overprotective of her. If you don't trust her to go to dances by herself u r not being a good bf. U should trust her enough with going to dances alone. BUT if she does go with some1 else, DUMP HER. She shouldn't be worth your time. And it means she didnt really like you. SRRY TO SAY. T-T
2007-01-29 16:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by Maria M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are all about trust, right? My boyfriend used to be just like that when he couldn't come to dances, he used to always worry about me getting swept off my feet by someone cuter, nicer, or funnier, but it never happened! If she's your real girlfriend she would never do that to you, and if she does then it's time for a new girl.
2007-01-29 16:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by Makenzie. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is something we all have to learn. Just because she is going to a dance, does not mean she will "give in" to another boy.
2007-01-29 16:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the foundation of any good relationship so ur just gonna have to learn to trust her...she wont leave u if u trust her...but she will if u act like a jerk...and by the way..arent u in middle school?! what u doin wit a girlfriend anyway
2007-01-29 16:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Bloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to sound mean but you guys are only in middle school. its really not the end of the world if you guys don't stay together. its not like you two are going to get married or anything. just relax and have fun.
2007-01-29 16:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to trust her. or better yet talk to her about this and why cant you go all she has to do is buy you a ticket and your in and then you can spend her sweetheart dance with your sweetheart :)
2007-01-29 16:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by thankgodhe'smine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh,I'd say you are sorta jealous, but that,s a good thing,as long as t does'nt get controlling.
Better tell her what you wrote in the question and see what her reaction is. What will be will be.
2007-01-29 16:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by ARLENE T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could crash the party and go with her. Why are you jealous? Don't you trust her? If you don't trust her then you aren't in a good relationship and should find someone you trust.
2007-01-29 16:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by 80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't going to dances alone just to go. You bet she is hookin' up another dude! Maybe even a couple of dudes!
2007-01-29 16:31:24 · answer #11 · answered by TheHomesandLoansPro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋