ok heres the situation, I am in college and I am 3 weeks into the semester. for the first week, I attended like 3 of my classes, then proceded to skip a weeks worth of classes, then I talked to my teachers on email and told them I was sick and coming back, so I came back for like 3 more classes, the main reason I miss class if because I always sleep in and miss my bus, then it just discourages me from going to school, half the time my parents are home so I have to to go to school, I just end up going to the computer lab because I dont want to go to class, I fear I am going to get called out by my trachers and my fellow classmates. I havent attended class in a week and I recently emailed my teachers again( I am a shut-in, I dont want to go talk to them) i feel like I cant attend class because i do not know what we are doing what assignments are due, I already missed a test and my grade are not good as it is.
2007-01-29 07:57:58 · 10 answers · asked by cubs_9999 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I cant sleep at night thinking about these problems (I am a tad depressed) which is why I end up sleeping in, I really absolutly hate school, I hate the program i'm in, I know its not right for me I want to drop out but my parents paid for it so I cant, my mind is not made for school, I just want to work and get out into the world, also I am poor as hell so I cant even go to the casino to waste my time (yes, i'm addicted). I am losing my mind, and I feel life my life is just spirralling out of control, I dont enjoy anything anymore, I cant stop thinking about school. It's a very visious cycle I feel I cannot stop it, i am in trouble and need to fix something, and fast. Has anyone been in a similar situation that just keeps repeating itself. Any advice for me what I should do??
2007-01-29 07:58:44 · update #1
Maybe school isn't for you. Don't feel bad, it's not for everyone. I know you feel bad about your parents helping you the money, but if you have absolutely no desire to go, why did you enroll? It sounds like you'd like to get to know the world on your own terms. So go for it. Just remember, being in the real world means making your own living for your own expenses, place to call your own, etc. If your ready for that, move out without your parents help and maybe when you've seen enough of the world, you'll be able to concentrate enough on school.
2007-01-29 08:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are suffering from depression, anxiety and addiction to gambling. You have one option if you want a better life for yourself: get help. Tell your parents what is going on, if they are no help, go to the health center at your college and they will point you in the right direction. It can get better. Talking to someone will help you figure out your interests. I strongly encourage you to graduate from college even if you have to switch programs - once you have a degree, you can choose not to use it, but it will improve your chance of success in the future. I know you are going through a difficult time, but try to be strong and work through it. You are very young, and it doesn't seem like it, but in 5 years your life can be drastically different - for the better.
2007-01-29 08:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely go to school. It will be well worth it in the future. You do NOT want to become a drop out because once you stop going you'll never want to go again (as you can probably see). There's already enough middle aged adults going back to college to make up for what they lost a long time ago :[
2007-01-29 08:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problems..almost. I-- went to class but one subject freaked me out so i stopped going to that class. Then something happened and i had to quit school...I just stopped going.
This was stupid..I went into default when I planned on going back. Now I'm having trouble getting back into school.
You need to take a break from this semester and talk to your parents and talk to the school. They will give you good advice.
2007-01-29 08:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by sir_blunted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry you ought to take care of all this, Catherine. :( *Hugs* in case you experience you won't be able to deal with the next day, take a private day. Recoup, get your innovations together, and you would be waiting to stand the next day. in keeping with risk consult with the lecturers and coaches and say that she wasn't precisely in the splendid innovations while she wrote those emails? If activities is your only escape, ensure to save enjoying, whether she mentioned you won't be able to. rather there are counsellors at your college? perhaps you ought to consult with them a while. you do no longer ought to tell all of them approximately your issues, yet they are in a position to help with stress and chatting inclusive of your mom approximately staying in the activities you like if it happens lower back. *Hugs* ? =]
2016-09-28 03:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a semester off and get it together. If schools not for you then get involved in something that keeps you motivated.
2007-01-29 08:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Philip D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya poor thing
perhaps you should start thinkin happy thoughts about school
heres a suggestion: tell yourself that if ya go to skool,you can get any job ya want; if ya go to skool,chances are youll make more money or even become a billionare, which will cause ladies to flock to ya.
remember,THINK HAPPY THOUGHTS!!!!!!!
2007-01-29 08:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray! Just Pray real hard and long
2007-01-29 08:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my head hurts
2007-01-29 08:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 2 skoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-29 08:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋