i think my boyfriend is cheating on me because he was with this other girl and went home with her before school even ended what should i do ?
2007-01-29 07:48:52 · 30 answers · asked by alisha bessette 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The last thing you want to do is make urself look silly by snooping. Just "trust" him until the truth comes out. Keep your eyes open, dont change the way you act towards him until u know the truth.
2007-01-29 07:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Even if he wasn't cheating on you, he has shown disrespect for you by going to another girls home. That hurt your feelings, made you distrust him, and may have made a laughing stock of you. Even if no one else knows he did, HE KNOWS, and SHE KNOWS, and YOU KNOW. Three is a crowd. Ask him WHY he did that. Don't accuse him of cheating, but ask him in a nice tone WHY he would go to another girls house with her, and if it sounds fishy, then tell him that is disrespectful to YOUR relationship, and makes you FEEL like he is not trustworthy. IF he wants to break up, telling you that he cannot have a girlfriend that can't trust him, then you can bet your bootie that he has his eye on this other girl after all. Cheaters tend to push the blame off on US, you know? Set the rules as to what you two expect in this relationship. THEN, if he messes up, you better dump him. You could do better. But, don't accuse him till you know for sure. And above all, DON'T go beating her up, or cussing her out. After ALL, it is HIM you are going with, not HER. Put the blame where it truly belongs (IF there IS any blame). Just talk to him, sweetly, first, and see what he has to say for himself.
2007-01-29 15:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have reason to believe he is cheating on you, dump him. You are in H.S. or less. You have plenty of time to find someone worth your time.
Just realize that there may be a real reason he was there that doesn't involve sex. And if that is truly the case, you may end up with egg on your face.
2007-01-29 15:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by Garylian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know the answer. If you can take it that he's been cheating on you then don't panic...if you can't then you probably should leave him .
But how sure are you that he cheated on you.
These are things that you should have in mind...when you make a decision.
2007-01-29 16:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by invisible1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he went home with her. Was she sick or something and teacher asked him to. Not likely so I think he is cheating on you
2007-01-29 15:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by sara a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask him what he was doing going home with another girl?
Do that. If he gets defensive, he's probably cheating. If he has a good reason, give him a chance.
2007-01-29 15:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by John D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would say cheat on him back but that would be so wrong the only way that u would know if he is cheating on you is to just flat out and ask him if u looks u straight in the eye and say no then he's not but if he dont and starts to laugh and look other places then he is
2007-01-29 15:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by cooper2cool 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After slapping him upside the head, you need to dump him. There is no excuse he could have for leaving school early with another girl if he wasn't messing with her. Move on and find a guy who wouldn't do that to you. Good luck.
2007-01-29 15:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him why he left with her and went to her home....maybe he has a plausible reason. If you don't like the reason, tell him so and make sure he doesn't do it again. If he does or does something similar, then drop him as a boyfriend asap.
2007-01-29 15:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you are asking , you don't trust him enough.
Hence, if you really need to know then follow him one day when you are doubting him, you will see for yourself and then you can end it because you are wasting your time.
There is nothing wrong with this just follow him and find out for yourself and that way you don't waste time wondering and guessing!
2007-01-29 15:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by Venom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋