Ok, Here's how it is..i wanna go out with her and she doesnt know if she wants to with me cause shes scared that she'll fall in love with me. and she says shes not ready to fall in love with someone right now. but she's been thinking about going out with me..what should i do? shes says that if we go out it's almost guarenteed that she'll fall in love with me.
2007-01-29 07:36:24 · 22 answers · asked by I want my ex back =[ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run away. The last thing you need is some chick falling in love with you . Pump em and dump em, son...
2007-01-29 07:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Actions are different than words. She can say whatever she wants...but still if she falls in love she can't do nothing about it. There is not right or wrong time to fall in love. Love just happen. So ,my advice would be...don't pressure her...just go have a nice talk...and don't say something that might push her away.
If she says she is not ready, respect her. Go out,have fun....and be correct with her, respect her feelings ...and after a while she will be in your arms.
I wish you all the best, and most important...to be happy in life.!
2007-01-29 16:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by invisible1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okey ask her to go on a date with you and bring her to the place where you two first met (started dating) or at least the place that you had the most romantic moment and ask her back out and say that you are willing to just have a real close relationship with her and let it go from there
2007-01-29 15:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by chibi-thing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out, falling in love is wonderful thing, if she does not agree then ask her to invite YOU to dinner at her place
2007-01-29 15:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by anecentric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel...my boyfriend just broke up with me out of no where because he felt that our relationship was getting to serious and wasnt ready for that so he bailed. which i think is pretty crappy because he should of came to me and talked about it when he first thought our relationship was getting to serious...but i know how your feeling and i think the best thing to do is just to try to move on. i know its hard to do and you feel as though you cant do it but its something that you have to do and its going to be hard for a while....trust me i havent been with my boyfriend for over a month and i still cry about it alot!
2007-01-29 15:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by beth ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like almost all girls we get attached very eaisly... so tell her how you care about her and that if she wants to be with you she has to take a chance of falling in love i mean .... just let her no you will be there to catch her when she does !
2007-01-29 15:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Erica R@e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't even try to get back with her........you shouldn't go back out with your ex's!!!!!!!!!!! NEVER DO THAT !!!!! Plus she is probably just saying that she doesn't want to fall in love with you because she probably doesn't like you........Good Luck !!!
2007-01-29 15:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by baby_ems_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush her or force her.... take her places... spend as much time with her as you can.. do special things for and with her... if she deserves you she will make the right decision... if she doesnt want to be with you maybe there is more than what she is telling you that is the problem and she doesnt deserve someone like you that is willing to do what it takes to be with her... good luck...
2007-01-29 15:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by heclee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she has all kinds of emotional baggage. Leave her be, if she figures it out she'll call. If not, then you're better off.
2007-01-29 15:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HER ALONE AND SHE WILL CALL YOU, UNLESS SHE IS USING FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOU AS A EXCUSE. I WILL TELL YOU THE TRUTH MOST WOMEN DO NOT GO BACK FORWARD YES BUT NOT BACK. WHO KNOWS SHE MAY BE ONE OF THOSE THAT DO GO BACK.
2007-01-29 15:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋