i asked this girl out and the thing is, she said yes. but she didn't give me any way to keep in touch with her. the next day i got her screen name but she never signed on (she said she did)...the day after that i gave her mine but she never IMed me....i don't understand, she said that she wants to hang out this friday but nothig happened that day. how do i get her attention, and why would she do such a thing?? on that week, i put my arms out to give her a hug but she gave me a kissed instead. ** i asked for her number she said her cell phone is "broken"** **next day i asked for ehr home phone she said she juss moved her a week ago...but she esimatied wrong, she moved here at least 3 weeks ago** what should i do??
2007-01-29 07:32:41 · 15 answers · asked by Bao N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she said 'yes' but she meant 'no.' A lot of people have no refusal skills. On the other hand, she could feel the same way you do. Talk to her about it. Ask her if she really wants to do this. If she doesn't, don't worry about it. That only means that there's someone even better out there for you.
2007-01-29 07:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by closetmeateater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be dismissed.
Your girl there has one of two things going on with her:
1) She is flaky and unable to get started on doing the things that she says that she'll do. She expresses an interest in you but cannot move herself to do the work needed to sustain a relationship--with you or anyone. You don't want that kind of grief. The kiss was to keep you from abandoning her flakiness.
2) She is "playing the field" and you are a shill used to either satisfy her longing for variety or to instill jealousy in another. In other words, her behavior is not flakiness but calculated to produce control of another--you.
In other words, normal people don't act like this. I strongly suggest you not accept this behavior, as she will not be different. End your attempts at a relationship.
2007-01-29 07:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a few more days and see what happens.
Rome wasn't built in a day you know.
If it gets worse, with no contact at all, then...
Give Up.
The only thing possible.
Let her go.
And you said she kissed you...
well doesn't that count for anything?
2007-01-29 07:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she either just wants to torture you and likes getting the attention or she wants you to jump through hoops to get her. I'm guessing it's the first case and you'd be better off looking for someone else.
2007-01-29 07:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying so hard, man she might be creaped out by you, always asking her for stuff, and keep trying to call her
stop being so pushy, leave her alone, if she likes you she will come to you
I hate to tell you bad news but it sounds like you scared her off by your pushyness
trust me, I have done this too many times to count, and it has never worked
2007-01-29 07:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by bkbarile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is trying to brush you off the easy way. I would just let her go and move on.
2007-01-29 07:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by Feline05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her,she is probably keeping you handy in case her other "things" dont work out.Pretend you are not interested and that yourpissed off,it drives girls crazy.
2007-01-29 07:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by klr_kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-01-29 07:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND ANOTHER GIRL, if she wants you, she will track you down. Enjoy the new girl friend.
2007-01-29 07:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by whatevit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave immediately!
2007-01-29 07:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋