He dumps me then goes to his x
and now he wants us to be together
he says hes gonna break up with his x 4 me
I dont want her to get hurt
but i hate her
is this normal
2007-01-29 07:29:10 · 14 answers · asked by Wanna_b_with_u...<3 ~KALA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not all time but well deside if he is gonna love you no matter what and not walk away from you in the future with your heart brocken into peices like his exs . if you dont think he will love you then tell him that this will not work ou
2007-01-29 07:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Helena White 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe you need to leave this fellow alone, but I know some people like a challenge. But if you stick around then you are going to have to him decide once and for all whose it going to be me or her? And if it's not you then you'll have to move on because all you will do is be hurt in the process. I'm sure you can find another wonderful guy like this one except he's single and won't play games with you!!!! But if you think all what I said it BS then stick it out with this guy and maybe one day he'll finally make up his mind!
2007-01-29 07:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems you forgot who got dumped [YOU] This is just the beginning if you give him another chance.? They didn't care how much you got hurt so they could enjoy each other?? Tell him to stay with his ex, Find someone that is not a cheater & heartbreaker, Hate them together.
Sorry being so tuff .Good people finish first. The others get away with it.
2007-01-29 07:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get as far away as possible from this guy - he sounds like a no good loser.
He doesn't know what he wants and will most likely keep hurting you and most likely other women too.
He wants the girl he's not currently with and keeps going back and forth and will keep doing it until you put a stop to it.
You will meet someone who will treat you better, I guarantee it. Drop him!
2007-01-29 07:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, or either he goes out with you or his ex, but he doesn't need to be thinking over it. Of course is not normal, you wouldn't wish for a guy to dump you and give a heartbreak, so why wish for the girl u hate to get a heartbreak.
2007-01-29 07:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know how it hurts to be dumped so you feel sad for her.. Seems as if your boyfriend is having his way by going back on forth between the two of you. If I were you, I would not take it any more.
2007-01-29 07:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going back and forth between you and his ex why do you want him? How do you know he will break up with her? He will probably be with both of you. Or in a couple months he will break up with you and move on to someone else. Find someone who wants to be with you. He is just using you. Good Luck
2007-01-29 07:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the love that hurts, it's being without somebody you love that does, as well as the envy you have for his ex. Ideally it would be nice to be understanding, loving, and not jealous, but I think it's normal to have feelings of jealousy and hatred. It happens to almost everybody.
2007-01-29 07:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl move on with your life. I don't want to be mean but if he really wanted to be with you he would have never left you anyway. Never settle for less or be anybody's door mat. A man only does what you allow him to do!!
2007-01-29 07:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....ur cursed with a good heart hun! The same thing happened to me. This one guy i really liked was going out with this girl. I hated her but when he broke up with her, i felt really bad for. This probably isn't EXACTLY wut ur going through...but still close to it. Nothing is wrong with u....this is perfectly normal. U choose. Good luck with ur choosing. I hope it goes well.
♥ :)
2007-01-29 07:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by Miss §hopaholic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋