there is this guy that i really like. we only went out twice but tealked on the phone every day for about a month then out of the blue i call him and he is like i am moving seven hours from here and he seemed really short with me. that was the last time i talked to him but i dont know why he would be mad at me. He seemed really into me then to suddenly decide to move no explanation?I think about him alot. I feel like he was the right person for me and i have never felt that about any other guy. Should i try again to call him or just let it go. I don't want to seem desperate but i want him to know how i feel even though he is seven hours away now
2007-01-29 07:27:21 · 9 answers · asked by pooh bear 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might just be scared of moving away because he doesn't want to move away with you. The more he talks to you the more good memories of you he will have and he will miss you even more once he moves away. So if you want my opinion I think he is just trying to kind-of protect himself by trying to forget about you. He isn't trying to hurt you though so dont't get offended.
2007-01-29 07:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.
Speaking as a guy, if I wanted to make a distance thing work, which I wouldn't but if I did I would've made some overture about it. If I gave the girl what amounts to a brush off and haven't initiated any further contact I would hope the girl got the message so I didn't have to go thru the awkward moment of telling her she's too far away so move on.
Lastly, look at the advice given here so far, seems the chicks are saying call him and the guys are saying let it go. Trust the guys, we know what other guys are thinking.
2007-01-29 15:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by menagainstamazoniammasterhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him for once, observe his response and then you yourself will know what to do. There are times that when people get to go places. It might be due to their priorities in life. At the same time your emotions and your life is important too. So do the needful. If he is still sort of ignoring you. Then remember the saying, "When the fruit of the tree is gone, it is time to move on"
2007-01-29 15:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by anecentric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say call him one time, and tell him you like him! He will give you an answer, if he says he doesn't feel the same way than big deal, he lives seven hours away. But i think if you don't call him it will just eat at you everyday!
2007-01-29 15:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by BLAINE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he had to move at the last minute, and didn't want a long distance relationship....or hate to say it but maybe he had a girlfriend, they split up and got back together and he was to chicken to tell you the truth....maybe try one more time in a week or so and then just let it go.....if it was meant to be it will be, if not there are a lot of guys out there...
2007-01-29 15:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by ramos_luanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already sounding desperate. He is not the guy for you because he is clearly not interested. Seriously - STOP contacting him. You need to move forward with your life, you deserve someone who cares about you. LEAVE HIM ALONE. And I mean all this in a nice way. Best of luck.
2007-01-29 15:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call him and see how the move is going and then just let him know how you felt. Can't hurt, at least you let him know about your feelings, he might have the same feelings toward you and did not know how to approach you. Good Luck.
2007-01-29 15:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Feline05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
you are right you need to know that's not being desperate that wanting closer and he did not give that to you. i say go for it call him up ask him and tell him that is all you want , that will turn the tides on him.
2007-01-29 15:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop it
2007-01-29 15:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋