I've recently gained a few pounds, nothing disgusting just a bit overweight...why is it so hard for me to find a guy now? Does my weight really matter that much? Would you date someone a little on the chubby side?
2007-01-29 07:10:25 · 18 answers · asked by Jay's Mommy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No i am not gross! I think i am an attractive woman, i shower daily, smell good, dress nice and always take the time to look my best!
2007-01-29 07:34:06 · update #1
lots of jerks here! well heres a cunstructive answer. i bet you are feelin a little bad about it and we can tell. guys dont want a girl with low self esteem (good guys atleast). so, be confident and maybe start exercising a little so you feel better about you! dont worry about what other people think...as long as you love yourself others will follow!
2007-01-29 07:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by BL 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am a female..so i would give you and honest answer..regardless of what everyone says ..looks are not important and beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...honestly looks matters....when you see somone for the first time you are taking a mentally picture..then you get to know the person and you decide if this is a person you want to be with...most guys saythat personality is what they like most but it would not be bad as well to look good...as a female i prefer women that has size , body to them..not fat but has a nice body..curves in the right places..(and no i am not gay)....i have a basic idea of what men like..and thats women with body...
2007-01-29 07:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing wrong with having a body. it looks better than being skinny so be proud. now if you are really overweight, then you may need to just work out a little.
2007-01-29 07:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good personality it shouldn't matter. Sometimes a few extra pounds can add to the sexiness of a person.
2007-01-29 07:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probabally not just a few pounds - if you notice a difference
Do you take time to look attractive? We would not even notice small changes - or care... Often its attitude - are you happy,cheery fun?
2007-01-29 07:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Slim Jim 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no your weight really dont matter to me anyway, and yea i would date a girl with a little on the chubby side aint no problem with going out with a fat girl i would go out with you if you wanted to, im me sometimes my email is rapcarblue@yahoo.com
2007-01-29 07:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by michael t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be at a weight where you feel comfortable in your own skin. If your happy about your self and your appearance.. they guys will want to date you. :)
2007-01-29 07:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would date someone a little over weight, just a little - e mail me a naked picture of you so i could see
2007-01-29 07:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lay off the sweets and walk a little, that should help, or just find a chubby guy!
2007-01-29 07:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If we are talking a little chubby, then yes I would. If we are talking human bowling ball, then absolutely not.
2007-01-29 07:14:15 · answer #10 · answered by Derek Wildstar 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋