my boyfriend has a cell phone and did not give me the number?

Question

He had a phone but he disconnected it after 3 months of dating, then he calls from his job all the time, then he would call from his cell. I know the difference when the phone hangs up. I know this because once he call me from a # ;like a month ago and I kept it. I blocked my # and called the # over the weekend and he answered. This is so stupid!! What should I do?? I think he has no clue that I have the #.

Answer 1

Two options

Either you rang his phone constantly, and he just doesn't want to be bothered all the time therefore telling you it was disconnected so you would stop calling;
or
He is leading a double life and has another girlfriend and he doesn't want you to call while he is with her.

I am sorry, but this is obviously dishonest. Confront him, and if I was you I would dump him. If he is dishonest now, then where can the relationship go long term.

goodluck

Answer 2

Who knows, maybe that cell is his work cell. You are not going to know until you ask him about it. Or better yet call the cell number and when he answers just start talking and see if he acts suprised that you have that number. Could even be, that he figured you got the number of your caller ID, he did not block the number when he called you so he was not hiding the number. If you can not be honest with your self and your partner then your in the wrong relationship.

Answer 3

I'd have to say your boyfriends up to something he doesn't want you to know about. If he didn't give you the number, and blocked yours, you certainly have a problem. Relationships are based on trust. He obviously doen't trust you. Sounds sneaky.

He can't use the excuse you'd run up his phone bill as my son is allowed so many minutes, but it's free after 9 p.m. If that was his excuse, he'd just tell you not to call him till after 9.

Is his dealing dope? Have a different girlfriend? Are you to clingy and would call him all the time? As I said, you have a trust issue. Better to confront him on this as soon as you can.

Answer 4

Immediately bail out of this drawback. No one who relatively cares about you goes to be talking and changing numbers with different women. It's effortless to need to think what they are saying, but the truth is that in the end the believe stage will in no way be there and for good reason. If your gut tells you whatever at all that he is hiding anything, he is. I are aware of it's less difficult stated than performed, but you have to go away this relationship. Being depressing isn't what it is about. Safety and love is.

Answer 5

Erm the fact that he doesn't want you to have his cell number does not bode well for your relationship. How are you supposed to get hold of him? Ask him about a cell number, if he denys or won't give the number then tell him you know he's lying, and ask why and what else is he lying about. Sounds to me like you deserve better than him.

Answer 6

Maybe it is his work cell or the work gave him the cell. It wouldn't hurt to ask him about it, but he may get mad about it, but its worth the risk. If you can see him acting funny around you, or any signs of him having an affair. Thats what I think anyway, good luck.

Answer 7

I would want to know if he were hiding something from me. Why would he not give you the number unless he was waiting for someone else to call?

Answer 8

break up with him. if he is keeping a cell phone number from you, there could be alot more hes hiding. you need trust in a relationship.

Answer 9

I would ask him for the phone number. If he won't give it ask for a straight answer as to why you can't have it when you are his girlfriend.

Answer 10

Maybe you should leave him alone. Sounds as if he is hiding something from you if he doesn't want you to have his cell #.