He is either at work (works with mother) or with his friends racing. We hardly ever go anywhere together. When he is home we just watch TV & he usually goes to sleep- (which is his favorite pass time). I often feel like I'm just there to do the laundry & fix him dinner. We have been together for 5 years - He has been living with me for 4. I am the first woman he's ever lived with or been with for this long. He is 38 years old and has always lived rent free above the building that his mother owns & operates. He now lives with me and pays half the bills. Two weeks ago I told him that he needed to leave- that between his family & friends that he didn't have enough time for me. He cried like a baby for 30 minutes. He told me that if he didn't want me that he wouldn't be ther paying the bills - he would moved back to his apartment. I love him very much but I'm getting tired of being alone... What should I do?
2007-01-29 07:01:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would tell him to prove to you that he wants to be with you. Actions speak louder then words. If he really wants to be with you then he will make time for you and show you he wants to be with you and cares about you. I hope he realizes what he has before its too late, good luck.
2007-01-29 07:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and done that. I left my wife alone most of the time for our whole marriage until she took me by the hair and got real serious with me, she held me by the ears and said if I dont spend more quality time at home than shes gonna be out the door...boy did I get the hint! Do this and set up a schedule if you have to so you both can spend quality time together. If he loves you he will be very willing to listen to you when you grab him by the ears and look him in the eyes and talk seriously.
2007-01-29 07:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this cry baby just wants you to be a mother and take care of him. That and the fact that he seems to care little when it comes to taking into account your needs and the needs of a woman. Get rid of the momma's boy while you're still young enough to enjoy life.
2007-01-29 07:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait 5 years, where is your ring!!! Try doing things that you are both interested in, at least twice a week. Set a schedule, put it on the fridge and stick to it, like date nite for married people.
2007-01-29 07:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS EASY JUST ASK HIM WHAT IS HE WILLING TO GIVE UP. TELL HIM IF YOU WANTED A ROOMMATE YOU WOULD HAVE RAN AN AD. HE SHOULD BE WILLING TO MAKE SOME CHANGES TO MAKE THINGS WORK FOR BOTH OF YOU. TELL HIM YOU WOULD LOVE TO BE ABLE TO GET OUT WITH HIM SOME TIMES ON THE WEEKEND AND WEEKDAYS. ASK HIM HOW CAN HE WORK THIS OUT.
2007-01-29 07:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing. That what i would have done. I know there is a man out there that will treat you the way you want to be treated.
2007-01-29 07:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i looked at your 360 you are very pretty - wow you are bi - good for you , i would love to see two girls do each other- so have you ever done another girls while your bf watches ??? that lucky bastard - hey could you email me a naked picture of you- thanks
2007-01-29 07:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt value you, you are more like property/maid to him. Get out while you can!
2007-01-29 07:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should dump him and get someone that cares as much as you do aobut them and ***** you when you want it
2007-01-29 07:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by michael t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋