I don't know to put.I feel unloved..?

Question

I know im only 11 but it seems like everyone always blames me.I play basketball and if i don't do something rite everyone gets on to ME!No one else.Its always ME!After the game my mom always gets on to me.Yelling at me telling me i can do better.And its so annoying.The other thing my friend shes always taking advantage of me telling me what to do..and it makes me feel bad.Shes always talking about how "hot" a guy is and rubbing stuff in my face.I'm sorry i don't talk bout guys all the time.And it gets really annoying.I don't have a bf and shes always like you need to find one and blah blah!!!But then sometimes I feel lonely and unloved...i don't know why though...

I don't ever cry either.I always hide my emoticions.I don't ever hug anybody.My parents think im "unlovable"

Answer 1

Your parents really do care for you. Be honest and tell them how you feel. Or do you have another adult you can talk to? An aunt or a cousin or a grandmother or how about a favorite teacher at your school? It really would be better to share your feelings with people who know you, rather than strangers on the internet....Also--you are eleven! No eleven year-old needs a boyfriend. You are a kid, and your friend should realize that too. Enjoy being a kid--be silly, play in the mud, run barefoot, do kid things. Being an adult comes soon enough. And having a boyfriend is definitely an adult thing....Your friend probably is the most insecure one. She needs a boyfriend and to talk about how "hot" guys are to make herself feel better--as if she needs to prove herself to others somehow....Remember that your friend can only make you feel bad if you ALLOW her to make you feel bad. Stand up for how you feel. Be comfortable with who you are. She sounds like she is not. And remember that a true friend is someone who accepts you as you are--not one who is constantly trying to change you to fit into their mold.

Answer 2

first of all you should never hold in your feelings.crying is natural.everyone does it.second people are always going to yell at you for stupid reaons but just ignore them.pretend to listen.when they yell think of a place you rather be.a happy place.third if your friend treats you that way then shes not a good friend.you'll find new friends better then her.and lastly if you love yourself then you don't need anyone elses affection.

Answer 3

God loves you and you are precious to Him. Do read Bible and know God's love. He sent His only Son Jesus to die on the Cross to save us, to Heaven when we die.

In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives us air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives us water to drink and food to eat.
God gives us a wonderful body and sound mind, to live.
God loves us, and we are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!
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