He'll be 27 in march, im 25 and i am most certainly not a virgin. He is really cute, successful, in great shape, charming, has a great personality, has a great job, drives a nice car...should i be concerned about him never having been with a woman at age 27? i've never known anyone that old to be a virgin who isn't a loser. what do u think i should do or what do u think i should make out of the situation?
2007-01-29 06:43:25 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl you better blow his brains out.
2007-01-29 06:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Picture it like this. He isn't interested in getting what he "wants" from you and then will leave after the job is done. It seems like he has more than his great job going for him. You shouldn't judge the fact that it's possible he's 27 and hasn't been with anyone. You should take this opprotunity and grasp it. He might be a virgin, but he's had a long time to think about the possibilities. Once you both had sex, it wouldn't be just sex. You both would make love and it would probably be amazing! At least if you both get involved you know he's got an awesome personality, is charming, and has a great job. That's all you need. Don't hold virginity against people for it can be a marvalous thing in the end! Good luck!
2007-01-29 06:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since when are virgins losers at all? OK given the fact that some guys choose to watch star wars and anime all day over a real life ( sorry for the stereotype) doesn't mean every guy above that level of "loser" has to have sex before marriage. I'm 22 and no that's not 27 and I'm defiantly not a loser..lol. but i choose to wait for reasons of ethics and morality. Ive been with my girlfriend on and off for 6 years now, shes not a virgin but we do share a great deal of love for one another and one day it will happen, but before and after what we consume each other in is something far greater than you can find in the bedroom. If this guy is everything you say he is then the sex should be on the back burner.
2007-01-29 06:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a bad thing. He is obviously waiting for the right person to let in and share that with. I think it is really cool for a guy to wait for something like that. And you know when he's in a relationship it's for real, not just for the sex like a lot of losers. And you don't have to worry about STDs if it works out between you guys and know that it is something really special there
2007-01-29 06:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by happily married ( : 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats fine if the guy is a virgin. If you two decide to get freaky its all good. Then things might start to get serious.
However, do not get too serious until he sow's his wild oats. Do you think he will be happy with you when he knows that you have had past partners and him only you?
Think about that when you go and boast that you are not a virgin. You will have the luxury if him not having any past lovers but I'm sure your past lover's will always be in the back of his mind.
2007-01-29 06:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he give a reason why he's still a virgin? (religion, never met the right woman, personal values?) Just because a guy is still a virgin isn't a reason to mark him of your list, necessarily. Yes, he may be gay or bisexual, but just go slowly and don't give up on him yet.
2007-01-29 06:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from how you described him, does he seem like a loser? Who knows why he hasn't gotten some. Maybe he has been working on everything else in his life. Who knows. Date, don't date him, but I wouldn't miss the opportunity just because he has never gotten laid.
But, if you do sleep with him, remember to be gentle, it will be his first time. Well, not too gentle, as it won't last that long anyways.
2007-01-29 06:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that there is more to worry about in a person who at 25 say's "I'm certinaly not a virgin" than in someone who's chosen to not be sexually active. At least his first partner wont have thoughts of proxy sex or being compared to previous partners. Sayng you never knew anyone who kept thier virginity until 27 who wasn't a looser is almost like saying I never knew a girl who lost hers at 16 who wasnt a slut. Equally unfair, don't you agree?
2007-01-29 06:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_no_unique_yes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just never found someone he wanted to be with, where apparently you had no problem with that. If the guy is so great, and you mention his looks twice, his personality twice, and the fact that he has money three times, then why should it matter if he is a virgin?
2007-01-29 06:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Goodkat 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the reason...is it religion, or a physical problem, or was he just waiting for the perfect person. Is he willing to lose it with you? If he's very conservative (and you're not) then that could probably cause problems. But if he just hasn't found the right person, then you may be in luck. Sleeping with a virgin can be wonderful, if they're willing to learn. You can teach him exactly how to please you, you know--tailor it!
2007-01-29 06:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by remyd212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible but highly unlikely that he is a virgin. There are not many guys who wait unless they are truly religious and they will be innocent for the most part, you will be able to tell if the person is being truthfull or not. Any guy who acts otherwise is hiding something or gay. Trust me.
2007-01-29 06:49:03 · answer #11 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋