This girl who i thought i loved dumped me saying she hade problems in her life and didnt want to hert me or drag me into then she said there was nothing wrong with me......i just found out 2 days later she goes out with this other guy!:'( i feel used and treated harshly i wish she would have just said she didnt want to go out with me anymore....is she trying to hert me!
2007-01-29 06:39:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think she tried to hurt you intentionally, although you may feel that way. Maybe she was already involved with this other person and that's what she meant by she had problems and things she didn't want to involve you in. Jus my opinon.
2007-01-29 06:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sad, she had a hard time breaking up with you so she told you that lie about her having problems in her life. I can understand how you are feeling down. She could of at least been more upfront with you.As much as it hurts, just know that most all relationships take a turn for the worst for unexplainable reasons. Try your best to move on and to get over the hurt and feelings of being used. I am going through some similar issues myself regarding heartbreak, as I am sure a lot of people are as well, so believe me you are not alone. Love hurts when it is with the wrong person. Good luck to you!
2007-01-29 14:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right for feeling badly - but i dont think it was anything to do with you really - some people just cant be honest and i think she may have already been involved with the other guy and didnt want to tell you because it would hurt you, but honesty is alot easier to get over...move on...and dont look back ever....
2007-01-29 14:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that she didn't think you would find out and she didn't want to hurt you but if you would just talk to her and think about your guys relationship that you had if she really liked you she wouldn't have hurt you expecially if she really liked you in the first place i don't think she is a very rude gurl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but that is my opinion so don't take it offensively or nuttin but i would never do this to a guy
2007-01-29 14:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by blueeyed_bigelow_gurl2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude dont worry about gurls like that, dont let that shiiittt effect u ...go out meet some new laddies
2007-01-29 14:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look just get over her and go out with a nother girl!!!
2007-01-29 14:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋