you may know me asking questions about how to ask a boy out. what if he wants too have sex with me!!!!1?

Question

helpme!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

I strongly suggest you talk to a guidance councelor or a health teacher to find out all the reasons why your shouldn't or if you really don't feel comfortable with that, email me and ill give you a list of numbers of girls that got pregnant in highschool. Or perhaps a list of teenagers that contracted std's with their supposedly virgin partners. Your a smart girl I know you can make a smart decision here.

Answer 2

in my view, girls don't ask out guys - the guy asks out the girl. Most boys are just after sex, but that's not the way to go. It's better to keep yourself pure and not have sex until you are married. Who does that in this day and age? Well I for one did. My wife was the only person I ever had sex with and we didn't have sex until we were married. It really is a situation where man persues the woman and if he's not persuing you - he isn't the one for you and go on. If you are the right one for someone he will know first, before you do. The man is the head of the home and that's the way it is. No disrespect to women at all. A confident woman isn't threatened by a man's authority in the home. Now you can certainly make yourself appealing so that he wants to persue you. Women have all kinds of crazy things about what turns a guy on. Well, it varies per the guy really. In general guys like women who like themselves. It isn't always looks. It is more than that. At the proper time you will get the right one, Lord willing, keep praying. Don let anybody get sex from you without a commitment TO YOU i.e. marriage. People who have sex before they are married rip themselves off in so many ways. Marriage is the only way to go. promise. Your sexual relationship will be better too.

Answer 3

If you don't want to then say no, 9 out of 10 times, he's testing you, seriously, to see how easy you are. If you are in the moment and confused and don't know whether to go for it or not think about it like this.

A. Its your body and if you think he can bring you some pleasure and you can handle the "no strings attached" kind of sex go for it.

B. Its your body and if you don't want to you don't have to and if he threatens you by saying he won't stay with you if you don't, that's a clear sign that he's out the door once he gets what he wants

C. Its your body and remember that if he gave the above ultimatum, if you give in to him, he will tell everyone, what you did, what he did to you, how you reacted to what he did, how you felt, and if necessary he will embellish.

Answer 4

If your not ready and he keeps pushing then hes not really interested in you, tell him to move on or wait till your ready. He may have never had sex before and is in a hurry to try it because his friends told him about it. Then again he could have done it before and just expects you to be like the other girls and give in right away. I wish you luck and don't back down on what you believe in or what you want. Relationships are not one sided.

Answer 5

Tell him you're not that sort of girl. As much as boys like to have sex with as many girls as they can, they also like a challenge. If you have sex with a boy too soon they'll just dump you and move onto the next challenge. You should never feel pressured to have sex, or do it to please someone else. It's your body, you decide if, who and when. Don't forget to use rubbers/condoms to protect you from STI's and HIV when you are ready to have sex.

Answer 6

My view is never have sex before 20 years old. Most men just want to have sex and leave. Also, make sure he always has the protection on.

Answer 7

The questions you should be asking yourself are "Do you want to have sex with him? Are you old enough and emotionally mature enough to deal with the responsibilities of having sex? Are you on birth control? Is he willing to use a condom?" Think about these questions and you will have your answer.

Answer 8

of course he wants have sex with you,if you don't want to and I hope you don't,go out someplace where people are or date with others.never let your self be forced into sex just because someone expects it.That's their problem.whenever I use to get asked out I use to say,well if you want a date fine,if you expect sex then no,usually they don't call so that eliminates the problem for me.I'd rather not date if i have to fight a man off all night.

Answer 9

Nothing better than talking to the point. Ask him right away on his face, when he could have expected it the least. Without a blink, notice his expressions! Anybody will be able to tell what's going on in his mind.

Answer 10

Be yourself and do what you think is right. Don't be what he wants you to be. If he just wants to have sex with you, which is probably the case, then don't. wait until you're with someone for a long while and make sure you are sure you want to.