Why are so many men insecure and controlling. Even if the women are not doing anything wrong?
2007-01-29 06:30:08 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am asking this question because i have seen a lot of women who are in this situation. Please answer if you have something good to say. Thanks.
2007-01-29 06:49:21 · update #1
Also, women are a prize and should be treated as such.
2007-01-29 06:52:13 · update #2
They of course are insecure, are afraid of loosing their partner, b-cause they have a hard time of keeping them intersted. don't know of any other way to hold on to them, so they manipulate, threaten, and keep tabs on them, like what to wear and not to wear, who to talk to or not to talk to.
2007-01-29 06:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Usually because they are insecure them selves, you answered your own question. Control is power to men, that are insecure. They may talk the talk and walk the walk, but they are insecure in some area in there life if they want to control another person. Now what is insecurity? That depends on the person involved. Looks, Money, Feeling of un-worthy, what ever the cause, is usually self rooted.
2007-01-29 14:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many things can make a guy controlling. For most people, not just guys, the problem can start as a child because of controlling parents. They are raised this way and this is what they know and what they may think is the correct way to act. Insecure because maybe they have been "burnt" as a child and have lost people that are close to them and they are controlling and insecure because they are frightened to lose the one (you) they are close to.
2007-01-29 14:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by laceyhutton 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love to be controlling. its part of getting our own way even though it never works on girls because they are always such loud brats!
Insecurity depends on how successful the man is in his life. Doesnt apply to all men!
If your going to like men, then you better get used to it. Hey, we get used to your bad dispositions and emotions. So be it.
2007-01-29 14:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by The Interviewer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys are controlling when they see that they can have power over a woman...if the woman show that she is weak and intimidated by men then men will take advantage over her but if she not going to take no bull sh*t from a man and she shows it then he would back off and be warned and know that he's not to take control over that woman.
2007-01-29 14:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by sexsired 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity..
2007-01-29 14:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
men are insecur and controlling because they are scared. they think they everytime a women goes out they are cheating or doing something worng even though they kno there girl aint cheating. also bec they have a guilty concinous bec they have done something worng and they are looking for someone else tp blame.
2007-01-29 14:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by ~giggles~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People usually become controlling as a result of a past experience they felt was outside their control.
2007-01-29 14:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question.
Insecurity makes some men control freaks.
2007-01-29 14:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check out the family history!
2007-01-29 14:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by lazy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because this type of guy seeks out this type of woman. Drop him, sister. Before he turns psycho and does something really scary.
2007-01-29 14:31:54 · answer #11 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋