I have a daughter that frankly don't got all her marbles and i frankly don't give a damn if she lives or dies . I know i'm a freakin jerk and i need to go to hell but i just can't put up with it . I'll pay u a million if u babysit her for me . she's gonn drull on u she'll bite ., pull your hair on you and mabe pis*on u tooo . or mabye she'll just spin around in circles and go deedledeelde 4 a couple hours but yeah , i need help and if i don't get it i'll be a crazy as her !
2007-01-29 06:27:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I can't remember, which one of you is crazy again?
2007-01-29 06:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dane Cruz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, I feel bad for you. Having a child is truly a blessing, sick kids and those with special needs are very hard take care of but it wasn’t their fault that they were born like that.
Although I can never imagine the hardship you feel, what you need is a little rest. (Both you and your spouse.) Hopefully you have a family member (grandparents/ aunts /uncles someone) that could take care of your child for 1 day. (Take the day off and rest) After the rest tell yourself that this beautiful child is all yours and she needs love. I understand the expense but if you could afford a special school, there are many out there that could help. Life is about challenges and you are a good person, your child doesn't mean it when she does something wrong and you need to understand that. Perhaps other things in your life are also adding stress to this situation. Deal with them individually. Don’t focus the blame on your daughter. (Perhaps look for some professional help for you.)
Loving and caring for somebody is really hard work. Your child deserves a chance to learn right from wrong and loving and caring environment. You could do it, find the inner answers within you. Look for schools/programs and support groups for people in your situation (and your child’s situation), but don't ever abuse your child (she doesn’t mean anything wrong)
I'll pray for you and your family. Just get through one day at a time and you'll see in the end that your special child will give you more love beyond anything you have ever gotten in your life. Although this challenge is difficult right now, at the end of your life you know that taking care of this child has been the most rewarding thing you have ever done.
God bless and God speed.
2007-01-29 15:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by theman134 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you can't handle her why don't you make her a ward of the state so someone who will love her and see that she gets the care and treatment she deserves can adopt her. I cant believe you would be such a heartless person your daughter did not ask to be born you chose to have sex and have her. More than likely it was because of you neglect during your pregnancy and after that she is the way she is. Someone should report you to Child Protective Services
2007-01-29 14:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by littledevilinyourcup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW, maybe you should take some parenting classes to learn how to deal with a special needs child. If you really need help I will adopt her. Every child is special and you need to learn how to handle the situation. I also have to say.. I don't know how you could ever say you don't care if she lives or dies. I will babysit for free. You don't have to pay me to take care of a child.
2007-01-29 14:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by puggylover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't care if your daughter lives or dies, your'e right, you are a jerk.You don't deserve to be a mom now or ever again. Give your child up for adoption and let someone take her that would give her unconditional love.
2007-01-29 14:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi thanks for writing us. It sounds like you are very frustrated, and it is understandable. Can you put her in a nursing home where she can get all the love (hopefully) and care that she needs. I urge all of the yahoo answer readers to pray for you and your daughter, and may the Lord grant you patience. Please call your mental health office and get some advise.
God bless you and your daughter.
2007-01-29 14:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by iraqidesertmp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need help, day in day out that would be pure hell. There are agencies and help out there, you need to get it for you and your daughter...asking here won't help, pick up the phone and start dialing, you need help, it is out there...please don't give up, it can get better, she can go to a special school to help her (and you)...good luck...
2007-01-29 14:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still love her even if she, "doesn't have all her marbles", as you put it. If she really is mentally challenged and you are not just making this stuff up there are people that can help you!
2007-01-29 14:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by mardaw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked for help from the clinic to get part-time or full-time help in your home? Is there somewhere (like a nursing home) that you can send her to live?
It is pretty clear that you need a break from her.
2007-01-29 14:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See your doctor. They can call in a social worker to look into your problems with your daughter.
2007-01-29 14:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need more help than she does. If you cant handle her give her up for adoption. You'll both be better off.
2007-01-29 14:33:40 · answer #11 · answered by Haven17 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋