Ok, I'm horrible at flirting. It is not natural to me at all. Any do's and dont's? Have any examples of a great flirt?
All my friends who flirt take the cave man approach. Works for them but I would rather be cooler about it so I have no role models.
2007-01-29 06:16:43 · 8 answers · asked by tenbadthings 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pratice makes perfect....tell girls that they have nice eyes, or that they are pretty beautiful. Jokes are always a plus...sense of humor is always good!
2007-01-29 06:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Humor-always good and tends encourage them to lower defenses.And everyone likes to laugh.
2.Sarcasm-Not toward them! But humorous-"I'm glad we picked the express lane" when stuck in long line-establishes commonality
3.compliments- jewelry is safe,(Ilove that necklace! Where'd you pick that up?) non-revealing clothes( saying you like their top if theyre in a bikini is,well,uh...);if you've seen them before and they have changed hairstyle,mention it!.Most guys don't notice so you'll have a foot in the door.
4.Courtesy-this ones a little hard to link up to talk, but hey, women deserve it!
5.Don't generalize or make sweeping comments." You're really hot" That'll get ya a "uh-huh" and a nice view of the back of their head.
6.Light self-degredation/asking for help; to the hottie working at Macys-" Geez I'm not a fashion guy at all. Would this shirt work for me?" It a) shows humility and provides you with a chance to see if there is interest and b) shows you aren't a pri*ck and apprecitate a womans POV. It also gives her a subconscious ego shot.-" Oh yes you are! You look great in that shirt! The color is perfect! Let me fix the collar ..."
7.Pretend you're a woman.Really, it's freakin' great! Two women by you talking about makeup problems; jump on in "Oh yeah! God I hate that! And the colors wrong and it doesn't match your outfit! That's the worst." You must be comfortable with your sexuality to use that one, but it's always fun. If they are talking about their rough day,and you" me too" it, mention that you're "retaining water" it"s a hoot!
Mainly it's just,WHO CARES! If they don't like you,so what.If they're crabby,BFDCYA! You could always play it safe and be quiet. Weekends are more fun alone anyway. Maybe theres something on TV.....c'mere kitty,kitty...too bad Oprahs not on..I love her...do I have ice cream?.....mmmm..rocky road....
2007-01-29 15:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best approach is to use a lot of pick-up lines -- one after another. The ladies love that.
2007-01-29 14:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't really help you on what to say... but here's a tip...
1.Relax- be yourself and jus start of the conversation with something simple like where your from.
2. look into thier eyes... idk but the girls jus love that
3. smile... if u dont they'll think your boring
4. make a joke or two... if your not funny.. than jus make one up... trust me .. if you know its not funny and she's laughing ...it means your doing something rite
good luck!
2007-01-29 14:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by zakattak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be to naughty with the girls.They like that their guy have charm,to pay attention at them and to give them gifts.
2007-01-29 14:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i dnk maybe you could compliment her sometimes girls r scraed when ur too flirty it makes us want to smack you but you should just try whats natural to you just be yourself and get to know her.
2007-01-29 14:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well confidence is always hot
just go for it!!!
start calling girls you know babe and beauty... works like a charm...
2007-01-29 14:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call them babe and beauty, call them belleza, that's comes across better......
2007-01-29 14:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by puertorock882003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋