For men only, please answer honestly?

Question

My bf just told me that pretty much all men whether married, in love, committed relationship whatever think about sleeping with other women. Not just looking, but actually thinking about cheating on the one they love? Is this true, someone please restore my faith in men

oh and one answer says that he will bring up a threesome or something, Well he did!

Its not about me not giving him sex, I am sexual and would love to have it everyday, and he knows that, in fact he says I want it too much, and remember I said that he said men think about sleeping with other women, not just looking.

Answer 1

He's right! But there are a few of us that don't. I don't even look at another woman if I'm with a lady I'm not involved with. That is an insult to any woman and I have great respect for the feelings others. A relationship is an investment with some great returns if invested in ones own account. Who would take from their or their partners account and put into someone Else's account is not wise, to put it mildly. Someone who makes excuses for their rude behavior loves no one but themselves. They don't even have the ability to love another. GOD said,"It is not good for man to be alone, so he created woman." and "Woman was created for man." You are a gift from GOD and any man who does not respect that is being foolish. GOD will not take lightly the treatment of HIS gift. My suggestion is send your bf off to play and find some one who realizes your value.

Answer 2

All men lust after women, whether in a relationaship or not. It is just the way we are. However, thinking of cheating on someone takes that initial lust to another level. I would say about 20 to 25 percent of men have cheating inclinations. Most people would say that I am underestimating the percentages, but the "bad appples" stick out more than the ones that actually don't cheat and that is where men, in general, get a bad reputation.

Answer 3

Alright, I'm a woman, and I think about cheating. It's not that I would. It's that I still have the ability to desire a good looking man. And who really gives a **** about the other billions of men out there and what they think about... if your boyfriend admits to thinking about it, he may be hinting at something. You wait and see, soon enough, he'll be asking for a threesome... or an open relationship. If you are completely uncomfortable with this, you better get out now, cause once it is brought up, it will never go away!

Answer 4

You're mixing up apples and oranges. Your boyfriend stated the case wrongly, however. Men(the male of the species of animal homo sapiens) contemplate sex with more than one female of the same species. The use of the term 'cheating' denotes the intent to injure or break the covenant of another person, namely the female he has shared his sexual prowes with previously. Nothing could be further from the truth! Although that may indeed occur as a result of the female assuming that the man she has decided upon devoting her sexual energies to has the self-same intent, men and women are built differently; not only physically, but mentally and emotionally as well. We are nurtured by society to adhere to a set of standards that go against the grain of our instincts and therefore are bound and determined to fail, 9 times out of 10. It's not that we want to hurt YOU, we want to help US! I'm sorry if this revelation hurts your feelings, but that's just the way things are, regardless of what some of these sappy bastids tell you. There are ways around it, however: Keep us well-fed, happy, whine less, give us sex when we want it(not when YOU think we need it!) and it's less likely to occur. But give us the slightest reason to think the grass is greener, and we're off and running, just like a Jaguar or a Mandrill ape! Good luck...

Answer 5

It is true in the sense that someone on a diet can still look at the menu. As my mother put it, my father is married, not dead. Just as you appreciate looking at a good looking man but still go back to your boyfriend, we men will look at other women and think that it would be neat to hook up with her, but unless the guy is a total jerk, he will still come back to you.

All men like to look at pretty girls. That never goes away. Just because we like to look does not mean that we will act on anything. Truthfully, chances are pretty good that while he may entertain the thoughts, he wouldnt actually go through with it.

Let me give you an example. My boss is a woman and she is married. I am somewhat attracted to her. Because of the situation, I would not act on that attraction out of respect for her husband. Also when I have been in relationships in the past I do look at other women with my buddies, but im not getting their phone numbers and if I am offered I am upfront that I am seeing someone.

Please dont punish your boyfriend for being honest with you. The fact that he said it is a sign of his respect for you and that he trusts you.

Answer 6

Not all men think like that, I beleive if your with someone that is who you should be with not another woman. Maybe that sound old fashion but thats just the way I am. I hope that this will help you make your mind up about this matter. Let me know how it turns out. But you know on the other hand some women think the same way.

Answer 7

No, I don't believe this is true. Lots of men look at other women and may think about sleeping with them, but it is all fantasy, much like many women may think of a movie star and have fantasy. I don't think a large percentage of men actually think about seriously having an affair, just fantasize.

Answer 8

Honestly,

Most men I know if given the opportunity would cheat. As long as there is a good chance they could get away with it they would do it. Put it this way, if I walked through the mall and every girl that I thought was hot would sleep with me, I would do them all. With a girlfriend, wife, whatever. I hate it but I can't stop it. The only rule is she has to be as hot or hotter than what you are with now.

Sorry....

Answer 9

Most men are not monogamous by nature. Not because they are men but because they are male. Cheating is not limited to men. Although I had affairs when married I was also cheated on. I think its human nature to explore the forbidden and it's special character that keeps certain ones from straying.

Answer 10

I've been married 10 years, never cheated on my wife. And, before you ask yes I am not bad looking, yes I have had ample opportunnity to cheat but here are my thoughts:

A person who cheats has no self respect, nor respect for ones family or family name. Plus, a REAL man, can control his urges and not act on a whim just because some slender s.l.u.t puts it in front of him. If for nothing else, my children deserve a real role model, not a weak minded fool.