I ran into my ex bf who I've been ignoring for 12 yrs. I finally talked to him only cause I was sober. He said he has changed. He also said he's mature. I told him he really hurt me in high school. He was also my first love. He really broke my heart. But it's so hard for me to forgive and forget. What should I do? If you have some good advice to give me, let me know.
2007-01-29 06:15:40 · 2 answers · asked by latinaseekingfriend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well u have been avoiding him for 12 years and that's a long time. Whatever happened between u 2 was a long time ago and u guys were only in H.S. We r all human and when we r young we make mistakes until we finally grow up and realize that what has been done was wrong. U will never know if he really has changed, give him a chance at least as a friend. Being friends is not going 2 cost u anything and besides u r older and much wiser now. GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-29 06:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if is unusual for you to be sober, cut back on the hard stuff. Aside from that, let the past go, people change alot from when they were in High School, give the guy a chance, he may be the one that was meant for you. The best way to forget the past is to sit down with him and talk to him about what happened, there may be circumstances you were not aware of that caused him to hurt you. Give it a try, what have you got to lose.
2007-01-29 06:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋