I'm a very shy person and I was wondering what the best way of overcoming shyness would be. I want to be able to stand up and talk to girls I think are cute and ask them out without just asking them how their day was or a simple, "Hi how are you?". I know this isen't rocket scientist but can you help me out please? (Hint: I'm in high school in the 11th grade. I'm 17.
2007-01-29 06:13:25 · 2 answers · asked by Wes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just play it cool. be the guy that everyone knows. go hang out at a different spot every day and just talk story with the girls in that group. than the next day go hang out at another group. just talk story. that's one way to get out of being shy. just jump into social circles. you'll have more friends and more confidence if you do. and always be your self and no lie. girls rather have the truth.
2007-01-29 06:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by talofa lava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this...it will work without working. Buy some tickets to a movie or an upcoming popular concert that's a few weeks away. Advertise on occasion you have them when the Ladies are listening. In most cases, some will be begging you to take them with you, if they want to go. Don't commit to taking anyone though. Then it's a deal and if there is a Lady you are more interested in that approaches you later, it's to late. This will help you to build a relationship with one lady who is interested, and give you both time to talk and get to know each other, and building up anticipation till the big night. In the mean time, take her to lunch or something a few times. (Worked for me in the "80's).
2007-01-29 14:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of Users 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋