I am 26 years old and I really like a girl where I go to the gym. She is very quite and hardly talks to anybody only her good friends that attend the gym. I would like to start talking to her but I don't want to seem like I am interested right of the bat becasue I've heard that is a turn off. How do I go about saying spmething or doing something to get her attention. I have caught her looking at me from time to time but I keep thinking maybe she just looks at me becasue I am just there. She is very beautiful women with a great body and the best thing is she has this very sincere look in her eyes. I am in shape tall and not a bad looking guy, but she makes me feel like a little kid. Any advice??? I have never had any trouble with women until now. I guess I am scared of messing it up.
2007-01-29 05:44:14 · 8 answers · asked by david w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, I feel your pain. Ive been there and it is almost impossible to talk to a girl at the gym without being one of those guys who are just there to try and pick-up chicks. I will watch these answers closely. Thanks
2007-01-29 05:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Stuey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her and ask her for advice: "I have seen you here often and you look like you work out very dedicatedly. I'm thinking about hiring a personal trainer. Have you used anyone here or anywhere else in town that you can recommend?" And just take it from there.
2007-01-29 13:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act natural. Say hi, make ordinary small talk. Don't use pick up lines and you should be fine. If she likes you too and is as easygoing as you think she is you will find a theme to talk about.
2007-01-29 14:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by kupumentira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start by saying hi and just go from there just try to make conversation with her and mabey she'll want to talk to you more or even be with you.
Good Luck!
2007-01-29 13:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, that was you? lol, jk. Go for it, you'll never know until you ask, just ask her out for a cup of coffee or something small like that... good luck
2007-01-29 13:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by happyblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As she's getting off the treadmill, ask "Excuse me, are you tired?" She will most likely respond with, "Why?" to which your answer will be, "Because you've been running through my mind ALL day" -- her heart will definitely be yours.
2007-01-29 13:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her "Hey bietch, you wanna have a better workout at my house?"
2007-01-29 13:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you crash and burn you'll have to see her on a regular basis. no pressure.
2007-01-29 13:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by sweetangle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋