this guy i used to talk to....i know he cheated on me....several times. recently i got drunk.....and cheated on him....and he found out. DAMN TEXT MESSAGES. but anyway! he says that it is a man thing...and that he can no longer be with me. is that right??? that is not fair. he cheated on me and i stayed...why does he no longer want to be with me??!!! should i just leave this alone?? how is it a man thing for cheating okay for guys, but unacceptable if your girlfriend does it?
2007-01-29 05:41:11 · 11 answers · asked by angie20k 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No he is just immature about it, if he really loves you he would stay. But since he cheated on you you cheated on him isnt it time to end it?
2007-01-29 05:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by simsad31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No good! Not a man thing. A Man respects whom he's with and if he has any self dignity, would not sleep around. Not to mention STD's available on the market these days. He really does not give a hoot about you, if these are his behavioral patterns. He sounds as if he needs a habit change. It's not ok for anyone to cheat, for any reason. For yourself, let it go, cya, adios!! Get yourself being back in perspective of whom you really are. Concentrate on the important issue here, YOU! YOU can do better than the last, like all else does. Stop thinking about it, or you'll drive yourself mad. Whats important is you, and what you can do for yourself, and others around you, who care.
2007-01-29 14:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of Users 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a HIM thing.. That's definately not in the guy book I looked twice and no where does it say that guys are allowed to cheat but are supposed to dump unfaithful girls..
If he can't be with you then it his because he is insecure in the fact that he can satisfy you and doesn't want to be hurt again when you do it again.(cause you will)
Re-evaluate your relationship I bet it's unsatisfying and you need to just sever ties and both just go sleep around
you should just get on with your life and for get about a life together if you can't be faithful
it's pointless
so basically unless you were doing it as revenge for his infadelity then you should forget about it..... you screwed up...
admit that you defeated yourself by being a hoe
and go fulfill your destiny of shame and misery at destroying a chance at happiness while clutching to hope that someone can fill the empty gap in your soul.... or between your legs...
2007-01-29 13:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a man thing, it's just u both cheated . He found out and has pride in himself so he wanted to be able to brag about breaking up with you first. You cheated on him because of acohol. He cheated on several times. All u have to now is that this is in the past. So go find a good, decent man, who'll respect you.
2007-01-29 13:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here's the thing, if in a relationship, then you are pretty much tied down to him and him to you that's why it's better not to date so you can have sex all you want without anyone complaining.
2007-01-29 13:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating. it dont matter who does it. u should have at least left him after the second time if not the first.
2007-01-29 13:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by dj_skiddlez_06 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just need to find someone again,who can commit to a one on one friendship/relationship,if they cheat,dump them,don"t cheat to get back at them,cuz it ain"t gonna work,you only lowered yourself to their standards. I wish i had the oportunity.
2007-01-29 13:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uglyman can't tell because uglyman never dated a girl before
2007-01-29 13:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by lol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have just had a open relationship. or just brought your girlfriends home and had a three some.
2007-01-29 14:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by stanley w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 wrong do not equal a right.
2007-01-29 13:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋