I asked this girl out about 2 weeks ago. She said "i dont like u in that way....just as friends". I see her every day and talk to her loads every day. Our friendship is not at all awkward. My feelings for her still havent changed- she knows that i still like her. Should I get some flowers sent to her on valentines day? Just flowers....no note! I need your help. Please post.
2007-01-29 05:40:16 · 13 answers · asked by Jammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm, unfortunately I happen to find myself in the exact same situation...
With as difference that I gave up already.
Good luck, chap, but don't count on it.
2007-01-29 05:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by greyseer2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you send her flowers, you should send her a note so she's knows who they are from, otherwise she'll get her hopes up thinking it's from somebody she has a crush on.
It depends on WHY you want to send her flowers... is it just to make her happy, or in hopes she might change her mind? If you just want to do something nice for her, you can send yellow flowers (the color of friendship), but NOT red roses. If you are hoping she might change her mind about you, don't send anything, because she's already made her feelings clear and you need to respect her decision.
2007-01-29 13:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has made it clear to you that she does not like you in that way. So for you to send her flowers on Valentines day would be an indication of your desire for something more from her. Just continue to be her friend. If you feel being her friend is getting in the way of your feelings for her and therefore making it difficult for you to move on with other girls who might be willing to have a relationship with you, then you have to decide if whether you should make an effort to spend less time with her. Good luck to you!
2007-01-29 13:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to stop you sending a friendship card on Valentine's Day - flowers though can be misconstrued - especially if you send her "romantic flowers" like roses. If you send her flowers, try sunflowers, they are just "happy flowers".
2007-01-29 13:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely. Mix the flowers up (not just roses). Good luck.
2007-01-29 13:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by kami_morris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, send her the flowers as long as you aren't expecting her feelings to change and you don't mind wasting your money.
2007-01-29 14:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by Holiday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'd say yes go ahead n send her flowers. i dun c any reason y u shouldn't u kno.. i mean theres no harm rite? u kno i feel tat if u reli like/love tat girl go for her. let her kno u like her (in tis case she already knows), juz send ur msg across. but yea go ahead send her flowers if u already hv d intention. :)
all d best!
hAni
2007-01-29 13:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by hani_madu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every girl enjoys flowers
2007-01-29 13:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by superchick992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think flowers are thoguhtful, but they wont make her havve feelings for oyu. SHe knows you like her so let her make the move . if she becomes intrested you will know, otherwise just move on.
2007-01-29 13:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it's ok if she doesn't want to date you. Just tell her you only would like to worship her feet from time to time and maybe sniff her worn socks after she's been wearing them all day long.
No need to thank me.
2007-01-29 13:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Submit to her Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋