I've noticed a pattern of my boyfriend's behaviour, which I would like to understand. We're in a long-distance relationship right now but our plan is to move closer to each other.Every time, he's feeling upset about something like his job or if he's feeling down or unhappy, he's telling me how much he needs to make love to me? He starts to tell me that he needs me and how upset he's that he cannot make love to me at that time. Since he has lost his promotion 3 weeks ago, he has been pretty low and most of his messages are about how much he wants me and how it is upsetting that I am so far and that he needs to make love to me?
Whenever we are together, we both enjoy making love a lot! Normally he does not express this kind of frutstruation but lately he has been tellking me how upset he is with the distance. I am starting to worry if it means that he wants to have sex with someone nearby or if it simply means he misses me! I dont want to make him feel rejected by a wrong reaction?
2007-01-29 05:37:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to use the five knuckle shuffle method
2007-01-29 05:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by antagonist 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When you're going through a rough patch in life, sometimes you just want a cuddle or some close physical contact with your loved one to make it all better, so I guess this is probably just what he's trying to say. Sex is, after all, often called the glue that keeps a relationship alive (but not always!) Anyways, just try to reassure him you're always there for him no matter how far apart and mebbes talk dirty to him on the phone to tide him over till you're together again!
2007-01-29 05:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Just_wondering 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like when you are together you are havig sex,and not making love.Big difference grasshopper.If you are rushing over there just because he is anxious to "make love" to you then you have to think twice about that move.If all he talks about is his desire to screw you then you have on your hands what is referred to in the international community of observers to be a LOSER.Please grasshopper don't waste your valuable time and let him be.If he can't wait and decides to screw a neighbor then my dear I was right(Which wouldn't be surprising because I am a genius).
2007-01-29 05:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 04:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you not bothered by the distance? When are you going to move closer together? Sounds like the distance problem needs to be resolved one way or another. My guess is he wants to resolve this with you so ask him what he thinks you two should do about it.
2007-01-29 05:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think in all probability that he is just expressing his love for you and that he does miss you. If you question his motive then ask him. You have to be able to communicate or your relationship will not survive. Everyone needs TLC especially when things are not as good as we expected things to be.
2007-01-29 05:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for noticing. Its a rare trait and an admirable one, yes many women would miss the pattern. Kudos.
Simply put, he needs you. If I were you, I would go to him. Nothing says "I love you" more than being there. Especially now.
So go.
2007-01-29 05:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by jw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's just giving himself reasons to cheat on you and by making the fault of the distance he wont feel so bad when he does it . But he could also be a big baby and making love to you or referring to making love to you while he is not feeling good is just like giving a baby his titty when he's crying . So i'd tell your BF to grow up and stop sulking if he loves you he already understands and has commited himself to a long distance relationship.......is this honeymoon over?? only you can decide..but whatever your choice good luck to you.........
2007-01-29 05:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by dillutedjuice 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you need to find a way to go and see him this coming weekend...he needs a little lovin. he probably doen't mean someone else since he is texting you about wanting you...i would try to see him soon
2007-01-29 05:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by kristina43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mail him pairs of your worn and stinky socks for him to sniff while you are away. This should help a great deal. Maybe send him some pics of you wearing them so he can complete the visual.
2007-01-29 05:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by Submit to her Feet 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
sounds like he just loves you a lot and relly misses you. you should go to him soon. he needs you.
2007-01-29 05:43:45 · answer #11 · answered by milopoo2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋