A few years back i told this man that i wanted to get with him which was about three years ago.He jumped at the chance
but i am scared if i ask he again he might reject me but last year he gave me a few signals like talking to me etc and smiling i just don't want to be the one who has got the wrong idea about it
so what should i say to him the next time i see him
because three years i have gone all shy about it again
please help??
2007-01-29 05:16:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing to do is.. to tell him how you feel. you should be able to tell him the reason why you have waited to so long to tell him...if he is a understanding guy than he should see where you coming from....he might like you as well...so you wont no until you ask....
2007-01-29 05:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you say to him should be based on what you would like the response to be. If you are looking to "hookup", then tell him you enjoyed the time you spent together last time, and if he's game, you'd like a repeat perfomance at 7:30 tonight. If you are hoping that this man will be interested in dating you, then you can let him know that since that night, you'veoften thought about him and ask him out for dinner or coffee even. If you know he has signifigant other though - move on babe! Don't put yourself there.
2007-01-29 13:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by martiek7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make something easy seem so hard to do, you only have to ask him is he interested in you. dont be scared of rejection. he can only say yes or no. if he doesn't want to get wit you, then move on, there's plenty of fish in the sea. a man can be nice to you but that is no sign of him wanting to be with you.
2007-01-29 13:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by black pharoahs of egypt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any guy will be flattered to hear of a secret crush.
Flirt with him and make it obvious that you want him to take the next step
if he doesnt take the hint then be blunt and approach him telling him what you want and what you are willing to accept in terms of a relationship and that's about all you can do
He has to make the decision but you have to give him the options.
2007-01-29 13:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. maybe find out how he feels. but actually, face to face talk to him because he could lie to you on the internet or the fone or anything else. so make sure you actually see his reaction and his expressions. guys like to lie just to get what they want. but if you both were a thing why would he reject you after the first time?
2007-01-29 13:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had to do a double-take on your question. I thought you asked "how do you tell a man you like his loads."
I guess the answer is the same. Just tell him.
2007-01-29 13:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show an interest in what he does in his life. If he wants to start a relationship he will get your message, "you are interested in him." If he doesn't respond you have your answer.
2007-01-29 13:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by ARE BEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?
If he is interested let him make the first move. What did you all do 3 years ago?
2007-01-29 13:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really mean it then whenever u have the opportunity to meet him give a sweet smile and he will understand. thereafter u can be frank and open in your expression.
2007-01-29 13:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by s l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that your digging him and you want to know how he feels about you all he can do is tell you no or yes. Good Luck
2007-01-29 13:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by sweet p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋