Is this guy right for me, his driving 2 hours or more to see me and staying the night to see me tomorrow, is it true love or what? This is our second time together, the first time we broke up cause he went to Japan for a while. What do I do? I love him so much and he means everything to me...
2007-01-29 05:06:44 · 35 answers · asked by sweet_girl_snglnlokn2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way to tell from this information if he loves you or not. Some guys will drive for hours just for sex... some won't drive next door for it. Some guys will say they love you just to get sex, some guys will say it and mean it. You have to ask yourself if you trust him, if you believe him, if the time is right for you.
Are you prepared to talk with him openly about condoms, STDs, and the possibility of pregnancy? If you can't have that conversation, then you're not ready. If you tell him you'd like to take it slow or not go all the way yet, and he tries to force you or threatens to dump you, then he's a jerk and he doesn't love you. If you CAN talk about these things together, and you both care for each other, then making love together could be a wonderful experience. But you need to find the answer inside yourself, not from a bunch of strangers.
2007-01-29 05:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your head, you have been out with this guy only once beforee, What do you really know about him I would wonder at the reason you give your heart away so easily, sounds truly desperate to me, The guy is driving for 2 hours so what, it is not a big deal. If he were flying in from another country it would still not be a big deal, It is a choice he made, unless you enticed him, then if that is the case it is just for the sex for sure, get to know the guy befor you give your heart and body away .
2007-01-29 05:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are too busy, married, or just like that because they just want sex from you.
You would think the drive of two hours then, for an all-night rendezvous, would SHOW to be a little more than just an attraction though, don't you think? Why not fly too see you, if she can then next fly to Japan?? Got it figured out yet?
Their loss.
How ya like them apples?
2007-01-29 05:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by Garret Tripp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only your heart knows if this is true love. Listen to it! As for "does he just want sex or what". I think you already know the answer to that as well. There is an old expression that goes,"why buy the cow when you can get the milk free?" Once you have sex with him what is there left to look forward to in the relationship? I'm very old fashion and feel anything good is worth waiting for. The next move is yours!
2007-01-29 05:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's driving for 2 hours to come spend an evening with you after you broke it off with him because he left town for a while and you love him to death; why the hell do you need more reasons than that to have a relationship with him?? So, he wants to sleep with you...that's known as NORMAL human behavior!! Normal people enjoy SEX!!! Boy, have some people got a lot to learn...
2007-01-29 05:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon, sounds to me like you're a piece of flesh for him to lay down on when he's feeling horny. Forgive me for being blunt, but that's what I'm reading into this.
While you on one hand may see the relationship between you both as "true love", I'm sure if you asked him the same question before sex and again after sex, the two answers would be entirely different.
Just my opinion hon, but I feel like he may see the relationship in a different light than you. Don't let your desire for love cloud your judgement based on simple words spoken by a horny man.
2007-01-29 05:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by genetic_traitor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an extended booty call in a way. Not having more details to go on makes the task of making the call difficult.
Two hours is a little bit of a drive, but....how well do you know this guy?
2007-01-29 05:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most likely yes, hes coming over to have sex with you. because he knows you wil give it to him. don't do it, and see what happens. why drive 2 hours to see someone, to spend the night, when he could of stayed at home. or got a hotel. What do you think?
2007-01-29 05:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's driving two hours, likely not. Unless its only to have sex and leave of course. The best way to find out. Don't have sex with him.
2007-01-29 05:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've driven 2 hours just to get a pair of shoes! No, it doesn't mean it is true love. He is probably coming to see you to get layed- don't give it to him, and if he comes back again, it MIGHT be love.
2007-01-29 05:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by Susan H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋