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I really like this guy Kyle......Well everyone knows i like him my folder is covered in I ♥ Kyle .....and well kyle asked my best friend out and she said yes.Well when i liked him my best friend made fun of me and told me how ugly he was and how crazy i was for liking him because the guy she liked was so much Hotter as she put it but anyway I dont really know how to act around her because she knew i really liked him and she said yes anyway
So im not sure if i should be mad at her.....
So....In your opinion should i be mad at her?? WHY or Why Not?

2007-01-29 05:02:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

18 answers

No, that's jealousy and its wrong. If Kyle isn't interested in you, no amount of hating her will make him like you.

2007-01-29 05:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by aanusze1 3 · 0 0

Being mad at some one is a waste of your energy because Kyle was the one that chose some one else, Wait for a while he probably will go through a dozen girls in the next 2 years

2007-01-29 13:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0 0

I don't think you should be mad at her but disappointed. I would never let a guy get in the way of my friends or family. Just tell her how you were hurt by what she's done. If you still want that friendship tell her but let her know that it's not gonna be the same you're not gonna be as close with each other. I have gone through the same thing before.

2007-01-29 13:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by aquarius2389 1 · 0 0

Yes, I would be mad at her! Obviously she is not a friend. A friend would have declined and mentioned that you were available. She might just be desperate for a date - or to make you jealous. it does not sound like she has your best interest at hand therefor she's not a friend. She probably went after him after you said that you liked him. If you are going to still remain friends with her then I wouldn't let her know of anyone that I liked.

2007-01-29 13:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The bigger question is are you mad at her.
I can't tell you whether to be angry at her or not but instinct and your inner feelings tell you what you are feeling. You don't need my opinion on whether or not to be upset. If you are upset then you can let her know. After all she knew that you liked him . Its not as a big surprise. The one thing that is hard to do is do you wish to loose a good friend over a guy maybe he isn't all that worth it anyhow.
Think about it. and see if its worth getting upset about.
I hope it all works out.
Don't stay angry for long

2007-01-29 13:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0 0

Don't take your best friend too seriously!
She's just trying to tease you!And if Kyle really likes you,he would ask for you and not for your friend!And it's good that she doesn't like him anyway!So just be cool,okay?

2007-01-29 13:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by ranya j 3 · 0 0

No, but maybe get even by telling the guy she liked about her crush on him. Or ask her about the other guy when you see her and Kyle together.

2007-01-29 13:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Sould you be mad at her, yes. Relationships come and go and a good friend shoud be by your side no matter what. Sould you end the friendship over it, no. You should just tell her that she knew you liked him and now she is going out with him and that really hurts your feelings.

2007-01-29 13:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by UT FAN 2 · 1 0

chances are, when she was calling him ugly and not as hot as other guys she probably actually liked him. it probably got kind of old listening to your adorations of this boy and all the while she liked him, but couldn't say that because it would hurt you.
then, when he asked her out, she figured this was her chance. so she said yes.
you'll find another guy, but stick by this friendship. it might not have been the smartest thing to say yes, but these things will pass.

2007-01-29 13:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kizzzatie 2 · 0 0

yes you should be mad at her and if she was a true friend then she should have told him about you and that u like him and that you should go out with her instead of your best friend

2007-01-29 13:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by kristin_e_1994 1 · 0 0

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