I wanted to know, is it possible to have a boyfrend when your a christian or its just wrong or it depends whether or not if its the right person for you?
2007-01-29 04:23:04 · 23 answers · asked by cassyforsure 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Depends on who you ask, honey... maybe the person you should be asking is God. Just look deep in your heart and ask God to help you figure it out.
2007-01-29 04:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, there is no age limit on having a boyfriend whether a christian or not. It depends on the person.
2007-01-29 12:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not a rule. But if you wish to be "Christ like" never be alone with the oppisite sex. Always have friends around when you are on a date. Just as everyone else has said there should be no sex before marriage but remember that Kissing and doing other things can lead to sex. We are all humans we are not perfect and Christ will forgive but that doesn't mean go out and do it. Haviing a boyfriend at 16 is really between you, your parrents and God.
2007-01-29 12:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Cajun mama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think it's wrong, Im a Christian and i have a girlfriend, and how will you know if the person your dating is the right person for you? It takes time to find out, and how else are you gonna find out if you dont date? I dont think it's wrong, I think God put us on this world to be happy and all we have to do is find that person that makes us happy, and the only way i know how to find that person is if you date. So no, i dont thik it's wrong at all.
2007-01-29 12:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Miguel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have a boyfriend being a Christian at age 16 you just can't have sexual relations until married most Christians frown on sexual relations before marriage..
2007-01-29 12:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by charmed4412 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no reason christian teens cant date or whatever, the only issue is whether or not the individuals parent(s) will allow it.
2007-01-29 12:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but once a person has sex they are married to that person forever, or until they come into the knowledge of the truth and repent.
Go and read the rest on your own.
2007-01-29 12:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are. Christians are human and don't spend all day on their knees in prayer. Nor do we have arranged marriages
2007-01-29 12:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bible states that you shall not lay down with your mate till after marriage. And if you lay with this mate and are not married, then you must marry within 30 days. This boils down to...no sex before marriage.
Dating is allowed, kissing, hugging, etc. Just not sex.
2007-01-29 12:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They should be, but I don't see what's so important about it. Why not just wait until you get a job that pays for house bills, cell phone, car insurance, and other things? That way, you'll know that you can always have someone to live with and help out with the bills. And stuff.
2007-01-29 12:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋