2007-01-29 04:21:14 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must be attracted to bad boys. Remember their are guys who would worship and respect you, but they might not seem attractive to you. Let your good sense win out over your hormones for once and give us nerds a chance.
2007-01-29 04:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not necessarily your fault. There are alot of dirtbags in the world, and you have to go through a few before you find one that is actually a good guy. There really isn't anything about a girl in particular that attracts bad guys, they just go after what they think they can get. If you want to date the "right" kind of guys then you need to make sure that you don't get stuck with ones who aren't. It's all about learning to judge a persons character, but there's always the saying "Don't judge a book by it's cover." Give yourself some time, go through trial and error, and then decide if a guy is good or bad.
2007-01-29 12:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Diagonal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let me ask a question? Are you looking for a guy that has something you can fix? So you can help him out and feel proud of the good work you've done? If you are, grow up and go for the nice guys that need less fixing, cuz you're not going to have much success with the jerks. Maybe you're meeting the guys in the wrong place. Try new avenues.
2007-01-29 12:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Art Student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Nichol
While I don't know you or much about your life, I can say from my perspective that settling for the "wrong person" is usually the result of self esteem issues.
I could never date the person of my dreams and even gave up on my childhood sweetheart... the girl of my dreams! who would have been quite possibly the "one" for me. Why? because I thought that I just wasn't good enough. That she deserved better.
It is the looser mentality that cause us to seek after our own kind. Sorry for being harsh.
The first step is realizing that you were NOT created as junk or as a looser. YOU have great value. How do I know that? Because the truth is that while we were still looses, God sent his only Son on your behalf to rescue us from the pit. The beauty of this is his grace is free.. we cant do anything to gain it except believe.
Don't believe me? Check it out for your self... start with reading the Gospel written by John.
Nichol you will find out how much you are truly loved. You will find out that you are acceptable and you will also find beauty beyond description that God has already placed with in you. Its already yours... just ask Him to show you
2007-01-29 12:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by Friend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont expect to walk into a pile of rocks and find a diamond
dont expect to change someone
Dont let your guard down and most of all , find someone that is worth you
Stop dating for the sake of dating, and dont beat yourself up. If 3 were bad, that means 2 will be worse and one just a bit better than the rest. Just have faith in yourself and be empowered, if they are wrong for you, tell them to kindly f themselves.
2007-01-29 12:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you are looking for the ones who are drop dead gorgeous and are bad boys.
Maybe you should not look for so much excitement and try to find a secure and grounded man.
Are you feeling you need someone gorgeous on your arm to make you feel special????
I would question my own self esteem and my judgement if this is true.....
Don't be led by the nose, be more selective. Just cause a guy pays you attention, doesn't mean he is a nice person or right for you. Most of them would rather look at themselves in the mirror than look at you. ... take your time get to know them better... if you see the bad boy behaviour, dump them....
2007-01-29 12:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some girls that for whatever reason, enjoy getting treated poorly, cheated on, and used. It's a fact of life and either you wise up, or you will keep dating the wrong kind of guys.
2007-01-29 12:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Guerrilla M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's a low self esteem issue. Think about all of your qualities and what you have to offer someone. Then think about what's important to you in a partner. Don't settle for less. It's better to be alone than to be in an unhappy relationship. You deserve to be treated with respect , so look for that quality in a guy before you say yes to a date.
2007-01-29 12:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you need to set a standard on what traits are important to you in a partner and not stray from those beliefs.
Sit down, make a list of things that you want in someone that you date. It can be things such as financially stable, career oriented, honest, religious, or whatever.
Also make a list of goals or places you want your life to be in the future. A person who cannot fit in with those life goals are not the one you need to be with.
When you meet someone new, see how they fit in with that list. If they dont- they arent right for you.
Take things slowly- dont rush into anything, say physical. A person who is willing to wait on you is worth it.
2007-01-29 12:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I might be able to help with this one. Are you referring to bad *** boys, jerks, guys who take advantage of you? Well I used to do that. I alwasys liked the boys who were bad. It's normal to go through that stage. I grew out of it. You will get hurt a few times and fianlly realized that is not what you want. I have a boyfriend now who is sensitive and I'm still attracted to him. The quiet ones will surprise you! Try it out
2007-01-29 12:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by ADNAMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋