a lot of my friends are gat/bi. with being around them my curiousity has piked up in the past and i have just been wanting to see what the big deal was about. i talked to one of my close friends about it and she said only if i wanted her to that she would be the one i experience it with whe i was ready. i never did go through with it and am now in a very happy relationship with a male and engaged. i never have considered myself gay or bi but only... curious. did i make the wrong choice by missing my chance and therefore never finding out what might have been?
2007-01-29 04:14:46 · 8 answers · asked by Poison berry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it wasnt the wrong choice for you. Personally, Im bi, and I think its something that everyone should at least try, But I've been this way my whole life. I was tought to try everything at least once, if not more. I think I would really be missing out to not experience everything. Why not talk to your fiance about it. Alot of guys I know dont think its cheating if its with a girl. Its just an experience. I know my husband doesnt think its cheating if Im with a girl... and so Im with girls. They all know Im married, and I only talk to bi girls too. Personal preference, but I dont think this is Wrong for you to be curious. Nothing is wrong with that. Good luck
2007-01-29 04:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you missed was the physical experience, which your sig other should be able to provide you anyway. If you felt the need to be gay or bi, you'd know it.
2007-01-29 12:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by David B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think at times most people are curious. It depends on how you feel about participating in an act.
2007-01-29 12:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's something you are constantly thinking about- maybe.... Although if you are really interested I don't think it's about the sex. I think if you are attracted to someone who happens to be the same sex and you can't help wondering- then maybe you should give it a try...
2007-01-29 12:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by okeydokeyjal22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.If you would have done that maybe it would have made you feel bad for the rest of your life.I do not believe in bi.You either are gay or not.
2007-01-29 12:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so. If you were gay or bi, you'd know it. Don't worry about what might have been.
2007-01-29 12:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's ok. Sometimes, when those things happen they screw up friendships anyway, so maybe you're better off.
2007-01-29 12:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jay's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are just curious, especially with the media throwin it in your face so much. and your friends. obviously you are in love with someone just focus on that.
2007-01-29 12:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋