i really like this guy but he saw me at a club with another guy that he hates .
2007-01-29 04:12:49 · 13 answers · asked by Linda S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweet talk.
2007-01-29 04:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Hmmmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really liked this guy, you should have never gone to a club with some other guy that he hates. A lot of girls think that by doing this they will make a guy jealous. This could backfire and he might hate you for it. My advice to you is to stop playing the mind games and just be honest with him.
2007-01-29 04:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Xfactor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to do is let him know your interested. If he has seen you with another guy then he may back off and not let you see that he is interested in you so the ball is in your court now to approach him. Just start a casual conversation with him and be sure to let him know that the guy you were with is not an issue anymore.
2007-01-29 04:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop him and talk with him. Let him know that you would of wanted to be at the club with him, but you did not know that he like such things. Invite him to an activity that is coming up.
If you go this far and he does not pursue you, give up. He is not ready for a relationship.
2007-01-29 04:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by whatevit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't let him see that are you are desperate, find out where he is going to be next, and go with some girls, he will approach you for sure!!!!.
and then when you guys are talking, make something up, about the guy he saw you with, such as he is so annoying, he called me so many times that day, that i had to go out with him
2007-01-29 04:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Linda...more info sugar....
Were you with-with the other guy? If so, how would you feel? Be honest. If you were just hangin, tell your boy, " Hey baby, I dig you, but if my hagin' out with someone just to chill has a higher priority to you than you eating my muffin, the go home cause I think I hear your mommy calling. You've got my number. You've got two days...." If he calls you and says something very close to "hey sugar, my bad...if it's just your chilling out with friends, and you wanta be with me, I can grow around it..." Take him up on it....if he doesn't don't even bother calling him back....This is important! If he doesn't call, don't call back....Set your parameters and stick to them...
On the other hand, if you like this guy and your hagin out with a sworn enemy of his, well then you'll have to also consider which is more important to you...if your boy was hangin out with that witch you don't want to be near, how would you feel?
2007-01-29 04:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Pedro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do with that is tell him you like him, or hang out with him. Make an effort to let him know your interested. Ask questions, get to know him and become his friend. Compliment the things you like about him. That is one of the best ways to get his attention. If your not dating there's nothing he can do about you hanging with someone he hates, but you can change from hanging with the other guy to hanging with your like/love interest.
2007-01-29 04:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes.
I think it will become very difficult for you to not be a trophy...a prize to be won in competition between the two. They'll pursue you alright...but not because of you but to beat the other.
I'd pick one or move on. In any case, its not the best way to start a relationship.
2007-01-29 04:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by jw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he hate you? If you like him tell him and tell him what happened at the club.
2007-01-29 04:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by jakethesnake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if it is the other guy he hates it should not stop him from talking to you and if it does, move on he is a loser but ...if he does talk to you then you know he is a non-judgemental friend and he is worth his weight in gold (rare) so approach him and see what happens cause you never know!!
2007-01-29 04:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by sexy gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to him and start talking. If he's interested, he will overlook the other guy thing.
2007-01-29 04:16:28 · answer #11 · answered by totalmaniac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋