My friends love sexual activity and are only in elementry school. Now I'm loving it too and want to have it soon. What should I do? There's a guy in my class who wants to have it at 14 and I want to have it with him as soon as I have my period!!!! Am I too sexual?
2007-01-29 03:56:57 · 25 answers · asked by rockingirl247 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
KIDDING!!! I'm not in elementary school. Im an adult and was doing a study to see how humans would react to that question! Thanks! You helped me with my study!
2007-01-29 10:54:27 · update #1
Yes. Please really think about this decision. Most girls regret having sex early. Just because your friends are doesn't mean it's the right time for you. This is just not something you should be thinking about at your age. There is plenty of time in life for those decisions.
2007-01-29 04:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by venturemomma 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW ... if you are a child you should probably be talking to your parents about this! Or maybe a school counselor or a friends parent or something. Your elementary school friends need some serious help as well. Exploring sexuality is a normal healthy thing but having sex at such a young age may damage you far worse than you could imagine, mentally, emotionally, and even physically seeing as how your body is nowhere near done growing. Take some time to think about this honey, and if you decide to have sex, use protection please!!! No STD's and No babies!!!! Take care!!
2007-01-29 04:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that even though you should not have sex at this age, it's not going to stop you.It is just one of those things, but instead of trying to tell you that you are being stupid I am going to tell you that when you look back on your experience with him when you are 20 or maybe even 30 you aren't going to remember this boys last name. And as you go through the list of men that you have experience more than half will have been a waist of time.A first time should be special and when you are smart enough to make an informed decisions.Just because your young does not stop you from the possibilities of an STD's or pregnancy.
2007-01-29 05:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by reneemj76 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your parents or a counselor. Puberty is a very confusing time for both boys and girls. It is normal to have those feelings, but you need to understand all the consequences of your actions. There are diseases, pregnancy, etc. You really should talk to someone. When you hit puberty, physically, you are mature enough to have sex. Emotionally, you are likely no where near mature enough for this.
Talk to a trusted adult about this. Don't just talk to your friends, as they will not really be thinking about your best interests in a rational way.
Yes, you are too sexual for someone your age.
2007-01-29 04:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You must be curious on the sex issue.
You are not sexual. You are just curious about it. Ask yourself if-
1. you are pregnant, what should you do(abort or keep the baby)
2. that guy had slept with different girls each night, how is the chances of getting STD or AIDS.
If you really wanna have sexually contact with someone, please remember to use condoms as it is 90% safe.
2007-01-29 04:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by dead_man_graveyard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand a WHOLE lot more about sex and the implications of sex, especially for a young lady who wants to have her first period before having sex. At your age you are too immature to be a mother...and that is where this could lead.
2007-01-29 04:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all of you are way too young. please, stop having these sexual thoughts. it is way to early in your lives. none of you have ever even lived. at least try to live your life. be a kid while you can. it is not worth it to try sex so young. you WILL regret it later on. you need to talk to your school counselor about this. you may think i am some old man that doesnt know anymore, but i am 19 years old. please, wait on these feelings. what will you do if you get pregnant, or catch a disease? can you deal with that? how will you live with yourself? dont do it. please, just be a kid.
2007-01-29 05:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by young grown man 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no u aint sexual it is normal to do that a lot of people that i no had sex in elementry school and i did it when i was 12
2007-01-29 04:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by -CEMIX- 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
elementary school? like k-3rd grade? jeeze girl you need to find something else to do with your life. you're too young to have sex. i'm 14 and i haven't had it yet. its better to wait for that special someone. and about this guy, he wont respect you for it, he'll just want some ***.
2007-01-29 04:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Callie P 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO
Me and my friends do it all the time. Just make sure you are careful bcuz my fiend has a 3 month old baby and she's only 13.
2007-01-29 04:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Whittney H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋